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zombiezami's review against another edition
4.25
Even with all these caveats, I enjoyed the book very much, and I would highly recommend it. The author does an excellent job of showing how structural sexism harms all of society, not just women. The tragedies in the book feel very complex and human.
Graphic: Bullying, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Rape, Vomit, Misogyny, Injury/Injury detail, Death, Sexual assault, Sexism, Violence, Grief, Death of parent, Car accident, Gaslighting, and Cursing
Moderate: Suicide attempt, Body shaming, Blood, Domestic abuse, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Outing, Medical content, Religious bigotry, Suicidal thoughts, Pregnancy, Infidelity, Suicide, and Abandonment
Minor: Slavery, Sexual content, Gun violence, War, and Animal cruelty
thewinterwillow's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Misogyny, Sexual assault, and Death
Minor: Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Car accident, Grief, Suicide, and Alcoholism
laurenbaggy's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Sexism, Suicide, Suicidal thoughts, Body shaming, Gaslighting, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Death, Pregnancy, and Car accident
Moderate: Body shaming, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Outing, Grief, Alcoholism, Religious bigotry, Death of parent, Alcohol, and Violence
kllrbls's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Sexual harassment, Gaslighting, Sexism, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Rape, Cursing, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Death, Misogyny, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Suicide
Minor: Death of parent and Car accident
rusina's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.5
Graphic: Misogyny, Sexism, Death, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Car accident, Animal cruelty, Pregnancy, Abandonment, Blood, Child abuse, Death of parent, Grief, Vomit, and Body shaming
Minor: Rape, Classism, Racism, and Suicidal thoughts
literaryintersections's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I knew there was SA within the first 15% but goodness I didn’t know it was going to be that graphic or horrible to read. There should be a huge CW and it was one of the reasons why I didn’t want to read this. The misogyny and sexism she faces is horrible, and although I’m sure it’s realistic it’s actually hard to read. I also think the cover and marketing made this seem like a romance but it 100% is not - the Romance is there but so minimal and actually really sad because there is partner death. The romance parts are great but it is not a romance by any means. What this book is is a portrait of grief. Just absolute sadness beyond belief.
I would be remiss if I didn’t say that I cried. Some of the parts when she was talking about tv importance of motherhood and what women do, never letting anyone tell you you can’t do something. Putting yourself first, giving yourself a moment. As a mom, that shit was my catnip and I loved it. But I do wish it was more intersectional cuz the one Rosa Parks comment, as if to say “Lizzie can’t be racist!!! She supports the civil rights movement” was lazy imo.
And then there’s 6:30. Which like a talking dog???? Idk. I loved him and also I was like wtf.
The last thing I’ll say is that u have seen some folks say that Elizabeth is autistic but that actually is never stated and idk if the author has said that. I think she read autistic but it doesn’t feel like a story about autism is that makes sense. I’m going to seek out perspectives from autistic reviewers.
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault, Grief, Death, Death of parent, and Sexism
mamaewalk's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.5
Graphic: Sexual assault
Moderate: Car accident, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Pregnancy, Injury/Injury detail, Sexism, and Suicide
ehost's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Moderate: Death of parent, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Sexism, Death, Grief, Self harm, Misogyny, Sexual harassment, and Suicide
bri_morgan's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Blood, Sexism, Misogyny, Sexual assault, Death, and Medical trauma
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Death of parent, and Hate crime
Minor: Suicide and Pregnancy
davidgreig's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Misogyny and Sexual assault
Moderate: Death of parent and Death
Minor: Child abuse