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Unge Mungo by Douglas Stuart

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adventurous challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I originally stopped reading this book, and wrote the folllowing about it:

This is an incredible novel which is also excruciatingly hard to read.

It doesn't balance its tone as much as it flip-flops in the extremes. For 90% of the novel, you're reading about some really sad, depressing and disgusting events. This is wonderfully juxtaposed with the beauty of being on the point of view of someone who is so caring, and so capable of love. I lack the words to describe why this book works so well.

This book was so resonant and so emotionally draining that I could not bear read its last chapters. It got to a point around the middle chapters where I could not read 5 paragraphs and not tear up. I don't want to see what I already know to happen, due to the book's structure, happen, and that should be read as praise.

I have now finished the the book, and my same overall feelings still stand. This is an incredible piece of literature that crams every ounce of beauty and horror in each sentence. 

Everyone that can get themselves through it should read it. I feel as though this is an important work of literature.

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

Good golly, if you want a book to emotionally devastate you, this is the one. 

Stuart’s writing style is one of the best I have ever encountered; it is accessible yet so evocative, dry, and absolutely heartbreaking all in one. It is truly a marvel, an author who really takes your breath away with their ability to string words and sentences together in a way that can crush you that no one else can.

Despite how gorgeous the prose is, this tale is so gritty it feels like sandpaper to the brain. Every chapter in this book holds such pain and trauma that I can’t recommend it to everyone, especially those who may have navigated topics that are explored in this book like abuse, sexual assault, and alcohol addiction. 

However, for those who feel able and willing to read this book, you truly won’t regret it - even if the pain and emotional damage more of reading it may never leave you. It is a harrowing depiction of poverty, social isolation, and cycles of family abuse that stings but in a necessary way. In short, it is a story that needs to be heard and listened to. If you do choose to take that advice literally and access the audio version, you won’t be disappointed; if anything, the narrator’s skill adds to this book and makes it truly unforgettable. 

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dark emotional hopeful sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

i think the romance needed a little more space to properly develop, but i still really liked it. 


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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

Lovely isn't the best descriptor for what the novel was for me. As I listened to it in audiobook form, the book went everywhere with me and I have loved every point and turn; especially Mungo's development into the man he becomes at the end of the novel. He had won and that is all I had wished him; I wished he would've began thinking for himself more earlier. I hope his future was beautifully gay and safer.

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This book man. Why did I read it? It made you feel, that’s for sure. I think what makes me rate this well despite the excess of trauma is that well

A.) the trauma was not the whole core of the book that the author seemed to do for little reason but to torture the character(s) (yes, I’m looking at you, A Little Life) and 

B.) the complex reality of hate and love is depicted so well for every type of relationship (parental, sibling, friend, lover) that you can begin to understand it by the end. 

You start the story with questions of why the hell do these characters stay? Why do they love each other despite being forced to live in their conditions, or being treated as they are? Mungo’s siblings and neighbors even beg answers to these questions. But you end, especially the very end, you and Mungo both come to see the other’s side. 

I didn’t think I’d ever see Mungo’s side; I began to worry he’d never see “reason” either. And for that, I rate this highly. 

Do I recommend this book? Absolutely not lol. I don’t personally believe reading graphic descriptions of certain content is worth reading a story. 

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dark sad tense slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

The first half of the book felt like a never-ending trauma-dump that was just longer than it needed to be to set up the story. The second half picks up a bit, but it just felt too long to get there. It’s possible I just wasn’t in the mood for that kind of story because I get that some of the themes are important given they are realities. I just feel like I’ve read this story dozens of times where poor families with bad parents don’t accept a kid who is different and also side plot have beef with another group of people. However it is at least more explicitly gay than others. I will say the structure of the dual timeline works really well to advance your understanding of the characters. And overall it is good writing, but I really had to force myself to get through it.

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Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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