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the_literarylinguist's review
emotional
funny
hopeful
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.0
In 2016 Symona is 37 and single, with her biological clock ticking. I listened to Lisa Bent talking about her book at Jacaranda's 20 in 2020 Festival; it was one of the books which hooked me from the reading of the first chapter. I also enjoyed Bent's spoken style and thought any book which was infused with that voice would be great. The story flips from Symona's memories of dating to her actually beginning to date again.
Symona is a warm character with a level of self-knowledge and confidence that is both moving and admirable. Instantly likeable, she sets about navigating relationships as a Black woman trying to date in London with the support of her incredible friends.
The chapters of the first half sometimes felt a little disjointed, as they were often a series of memories. There were also the occasional lapses in spelling, punctuation or grammar of the narration. However, I loved the second half of the book where Bent brought in her counselling expertise to take Symona on a journey of growth and healing. While there are emotional moments, reading this book ultimately brought a sense of peace and calm. Bent's reflective style and emphasis on inner spiritual work was touching. And, of course, I loved the all-important ending.
Symona is a warm character with a level of self-knowledge and confidence that is both moving and admirable. Instantly likeable, she sets about navigating relationships as a Black woman trying to date in London with the support of her incredible friends.
The chapters of the first half sometimes felt a little disjointed, as they were often a series of memories. There were also the occasional lapses in spelling, punctuation or grammar of the narration. However, I loved the second half of the book where Bent brought in her counselling expertise to take Symona on a journey of growth and healing. While there are emotional moments, reading this book ultimately brought a sense of peace and calm. Bent's reflective style and emphasis on inner spiritual work was touching. And, of course, I loved the all-important ending.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Sexual content
Minor: Abortion, Infidelity, and Racism
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