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When Women Were Dragons by Kelly Barnhill

aqeela's review against another edition

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4.0

4.25 stars, rounded down

lizclark81's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional inspiring medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Absolutely loved both the caliber of writing and the imaginative storytelling of this novel. The character of Alex is so fantastically complex and compelling, and the other characters (Marla! Beatrice!) are so beautifully rendered I was crying by the end of the story. Truly a good read.

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5.0

Beautiful.

This book put me back into that child headspace, where adults make decisions and we can try to understand, but don't. It also spoke to me as an adult, discussing what we can and cannot do, and why, and the importance of free will and unconditional love. It did not take the path that lead to the easy storybook ending. It reaches a satisfying conclusion, but the journey there is every bit as messy and uneven as real life is. Except this book has dragons. Because all women, it is theorized, have the potential to transform into dragons. Some do, some don't. In 1955, the United States experienced a mass Dragoning that tore 200,000+ families apart. But we are focused on one family, and what happened to them. There are moments of anger, moments of joy, moments of beauty and tenderness and wonder. It tore my heart more than once. It is a must read.

searedfish's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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bookishreader626's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

marteg's review against another edition

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slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Loveable characters? Yes

3.5

garanciels's review against another edition

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emotional fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

2.5

emilyb_chicago's review against another edition

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2.0

There was a strong female character and the writing was really beautiful. Some imagery is so very intense that it made my skin twitch and my neck crawls when I think about it. The prose is very arresting.

Unfortunately, I found this book primarily about isolation and trauma. Even the act described in the title and described as "fredom" was only available when giving up everything else. But for all that inherent trauma in the book, I didn't think the trauma was followed up on after it stopped being convenient for the plot. There were many lose ends and in general I found the book disappointing.

Here is how I wished the book would have ended:
Spoiler

Alex finally opens the box from her mother, inside there is a letter that Alex doesn't read but she finds the money and goes to college. After Alex's first love (Stella) dragons, Alex reads the letter. The letter says: "I loved you, I stayed for you and Bea and needed you to stay for us too... My knots were magic and kept you human." In that letter, Alex finds out she only needs to untie her knots to "feel" the call the way the other girls felt it before.
And then we could find out or not what happens there. But then so many lose ends are tied up!

Here are the specific things that bothered me throughout - including the threads I thought were dropped:
* The image of dragons was at first fierce and proud, but when it became convenient they no longer had to burn things when touching them and they could wear clothing and become a simple talking animal, shoving themselves back into the world that they had previously rejected.
* The knot work was a huge part in the first third of the book, was dropped completely until the epilogue.
* The epilogue was so sad - having memorials of the people who abandoned her around her home and none of the aunt who came back or the cousin/sister who was changing the world. What a sad, lonely ending to a lonely, controlling life.
* Dragon culture is hinted at, but never discussed. The star travel is a weird and unnecessary point that pops up a few times. And the women's reproductive system overlaid with a dragons head was confusing and misleading at the start.
* Originally I thought also the inconsistency about the mom hiding the money was a dropped thread - but after discussing with other readers the gardening obsession made that feel more real so she could stash the household money in a college fund and grow her own veggies to feed them instead of spending on groceries.



Quotes that stopped me:
"At times, the tension between adults felt like acid on my skin—no physical wound, but burning all the same." 10%

"My anger didn’t go away. It shifted and adjusted itself. It wound its way through my belly and spiraled around each of my bones." 57%

"In any successful marriage, one partner must face the reality of being very old, and very alone." 98%

jojanneke83's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging emotional inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

ainhoo_23's review against another edition

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4.0

4 estrellas.


Una fábula feminista llena de magia y sororidad. Creo que nunca había leído un libro con una temática parecida, y he de decir que fue una grata sorpresa.
Me lo compro mi mamá por mi cumple, y estaba muy nerviosa por si me gustaría o no. Y honestamente después de leer algunas reseñas estaba un tanto reticente al libro. Decidí darle un chance ya que era semana santa y tenía mucho más tiempo y me alegro de haberlo hecho.

El libro está ambientado sobre los años 50 en Estados Unidos. En este mundo a pesar de existir el elemento mágico de la "dragonización" el ambiente, a pesar de no haberla vivido evidentemente, creo que está bien conseguida. La idea de que las mujeres trabajarán, se expresarán, estudiarán, etc...(básicamente cualquier cosa que las hiciera pensar) era mal visto por la sociedad. Y esto se ve a través de los ojos de nuestra protagonista Alex. Vemos cómo va creciendo a lo largo del libro, y al verla crecer también observamos sus cambios de humor, su punto de vista sobre las dragonas, sobre sus padres, sobre sus estudios, sobre el mundo.

Obviamente tiene un mensaje feminista, pero no me resultó que gritase "MUJERES BIEN // HOMBRE MAL". Tiene el mensaje de evolución, de luchar por lo que queremos a pesar de las advertencias.

Creo que el mensaje que más me gustó, como persona curiosa que soy, es el de la ciencia. Y es que el libro está narrado de tal manera que en los finales de algunos capítulos había entradas de un diario, una entrevista o un fragmento de un libro sobre el proceso de dragonización. Al ser un tema relacionado con las mujeres fue fuertemente censurado, por lo que ver esos resquicios de información en una historia donde todo era neblina, personalmente me encantaba.
Además de que había frases preciosas sobre el conocimiento, la investigadora, la tontería que sería olvidar parte de nuestra historia. Creo que fue una de mis partes favoritas.

Si tuviera que ponerla la pega sería que perdió fuelle. Al principio entre con las expectativas de que no me iba a gustar, pero según fui avanzando en la historia estaba cada vez más metida. Sin embargo, en las últimas 150 páginas o así sentí que se extendía demasiado. Alex daba vueltas a las mismas cosas, se estancaba, se enfadaba, se sentía avergonzada y a repetir el ciclo. Y aunque es realista, leerlo es muy muy aburrido y corta el ritmo de la historia de sobremanera.

Creo que nunca había escrito algo tan "culto" jajajaja. Creo que eso es todo, pero dejo una frasecita que me gustó jujuju.
"Lo único nico más obsceno que la ignorancia es el desconocimiento deliberado"

Posdata: se me enternecía corazón cada vez que mi mamá me veia leer y me preguntaba si me estaba gustando o no.