Reviews tagging 'Child abuse'

The Discomfort of Evening by Lucas Rijneveld

77 reviews

graviereads's review against another edition

dark mysterious tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

EXTREMELY vivid imagery. Gross. Emphasis on discomfort. Disgusting but not in a fun way. Interesting read but highly cringe

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Child death, Animal cruelty, Excrement, Animal death, Self harm, Sexual content, and Incest

Moderate: Child abuse, Vomit, Suicide, Eating disorder, and Suicide attempt

erikwmj's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Animal cruelty, Eating disorder, Suicidal thoughts, Child death, Emotional abuse, Excrement, Pedophilia, Sexual harassment, Suicide, Child abuse, Animal death, Domestic abuse, Incest, Grief, Mental illness, Self harm, Sexual content, and Sexual assault

Moderate: Antisemitism, Blood, Abortion, Religious bigotry, Bullying, Body shaming, and Ableism

judythedreamer's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Animal death, Bullying, Self harm, Vomit, Body horror, Blood, Child abuse, Child death, Gore, Grief, Pedophilia, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Torture, Animal cruelty, Mental illness, Excrement, Incest, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Suicide, Violence, Abandonment, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Death, Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, and Rape

msaari's review against another edition

dark emotional sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

 

Marieke Lucas Rijneveld (s. 1991) on alankomaalainen kirjailija, joka voitti Illan epämukavuus -esikoisromaanillaan kansainvälisen Booker -palkinnon vuonna 2020. Rijneveld oli sekä ensimmäinen alankomaalainen että ensimmäinen muunsukupuolinen Booker-voittaja. Teoksen on suomentanut Taru Luojola. 

 

Uskonnollisessa perheessä maaseudulla kasvanut Rijneveld kertoo esikoisteoksessaan hartaan uskovaisesta maalaisperheestä. Perheen elämä hajoaa, kun kirjan kertojan, kymmenvuotiaan Jas-tytön, vanhin veli Matthies lähtee eräänä joulukuun aamuna luistelemaan joelle ja hukkuu. Tämä tapaus suistaa koko perheen raiteiltaan. 

 

Kirjan lähtökohta on lohduton, eikä meno siitä parane. Kertojan maailma on tuskaa täynnä, eikä perheestä juuri apua heru. Perheen vanhemmat käsittelevät tuskaa omin tavoin: äiti nälkiinnyttää itseään, isä vetäytyy maatilan töihin. Kun kylän lapset ovat auttamassa vaeltavia rupikonnia ja sammakoita pääsemään veteen turvaan, Jas nappaa taskuunsa kaksi rupikonnaa ja pistää ne huoneessaan lypsyämpäriin. 

 

”Pidä sinä vain lukua”, äiti sanoo ja kääntyy ympäri. Hän on pian yhtä laiha kuin ladon seinään nojaava lantaharava. Vasta nyt ymmärrän, miksei hän enää syö. Obbe kertoi sammakkovaelluksen aikana, että talviunen jälkeen rupikonnat syövät vasta kun ovat paritelleet, eivät aiemmin. Isä ja äiti eivät enää kosketa toisiaan, eivät edes ohimennen. Se tarkoittaa, etteivät he myöskään enää parittele. 

 

Jas ajattelee, että jos rupikonnatkin parittelevat, niin parittelevat myös isä ja äiti. Sen jälkeen kaikki on paremmin. Jas itse oireilee monin tavoin: hän ei suostu enää riisumaan punaista takkiaan eikä käy vessassa. Isoveli Obbesta tulee kammottavan julma ja Jas hyväksyntää hakiessaan tekee kaiken, mitä isoveli ehdottaa. Pikkusisko Hannan kanssa Jas suunnittelee pakenemista joen yli vastarannalle. 

 

Rijneveld kuvaa kirjassa kammottavan tuskaisen maailman. Kirja pursuaa groteskeja ja ällöttäviä yksityiskohtia. Jokunen sisältövaroituskin on paikallaan: luvassa on muun muassa julmuutta eläimiä kohtaan, lasten kaltoinkohtelua, monenlaista lasten välistä seksuaalisuutta ja viitteitä pedofiliaan. Jos tuntuu, ettei kirja voi käydä enää raskaammaksi ja inhottavammaksi, Rijneveld keksii kyllä jotain uutta. 

 

Äidin äänessä on enemmän säröjä kuin kanikopin seinässä rakoja. Pidätän hengitystä. Märkä nalle rintaa vasten saa takin kosteaksi, nallen pää riippuu velttona. Hetken mietin, kertoikohan Hitler äidilleen mitä suunnitteli tekevänsä ja että siitä tulisi sotkuista. En ole kertonut kenellekään, kuinka silloin rukoilin, että Dieuwertje saisi elää. Oliko kymmenes vitsaus minun vikani? 

 

Ei siis mitään hyvänmielenkirjallisuutta, tämä. Syyllisyys painaa Jasia, hän kun meni rukoilemaan Jumalalta, että tämä ottaisi Jasin Dieuwertje-kanin sijasta isoveljen. Syyllisyys saa Jasin sitten oireilemaan monin tavoin. Rijneveldin kirja on yhtä kärsimystä ja pahaa mieltä. Suosittelen sitä varauksella, mutta jos kammottavuuksien virran vain sietää, saa kyllä mieleenpainuvan lukukokemuksen. Rijneveld kirjoittaa hyvin ja Luojola on saanut tekstin soimaan myös suomeksi. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Animal cruelty, Child abuse, Child death, and Sexual content

Moderate: Suicide

Minor: Pedophilia

ficteon's review against another edition

dark emotional sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

A very, very uncomfortable read. The grossest book I've ever read. Though I think I'm excusing a lot of the gross behavior in it as it's spookymonth and I'm reading it as a horror Halloween book, but it's gross. If I read this in March I'd probably hate it. 
Still it made me keep reading to find out what happens to the child mc. I also get why it was gross in someway, as it is meant to be uncomfortable and traumatic, and it's about what grief does to you if you handle it the wrong way. Though.. why would you ever want your name to be on this book? I wonder why she wrote this. 

It was still interesting, but for it's contents I don't think I can give it higher than a 3, but also not lower as the story did make me invested, and it was a horror read as said before. If you plan on reading this, do it now and not in other months. Or if you love gross books, go ahead, this one is really gross.

Though the Dutch culture, and Christian Dutch culture was fun to read throughout this book as someone who comes from that culture. Lot of recognizable things mostly from my siblings memories. I think my brother is born the same year as the MC. I would've been born around the time of the book.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Suicide, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child abuse, Child death, Emotional abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Grief, and Incest

Moderate: Pedophilia, Cursing, and Gaslighting

Minor: Blood

stockholmsara's review against another edition

dark sad tense slow-paced

• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No

1.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Incest, Sexual violence, Pedophilia, Eating disorder, Sexual assault, Emotional abuse, Rape, Torture, Child abuse, Animal cruelty, Adult/minor relationship, Animal death, Child death, Mental illness, Grief, and Gore

etty_m's review against another edition

Too disturbing. Themes of self harm, child abuse and other horrors becoming increasingly darker. It’s a well written book and compelling concept, I just don’t have the stomach for it. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Excrement, Self harm, Child abuse, Animal death, Death, Grief, Eating disorder, and Injury/Injury detail

noblekylie's review against another edition

challenging dark sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Death, Suicide, and Child death

oftheolivetree's review against another edition

challenging dark sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.0

The Discomfort of Evening touches on grief and the way families fall apart in a unique way. Jas, the main character, exemplifies how anxiety and obsessive tendencies develop following the experience of severe trauma, and how children often feel the need to be the glue that keeps their dying families together in the wake of tragedy. That being said, this book uses incredible violence, molestation, and incest, among other things, as shock value and excitement for readers who clearly have never experienced these things. Sexual abuse is romanticized heavily in this book and is described in heavy detail literally for no reason other than to shock the reader. Child molestation, incest, abuse, etc. adds nothing to the book and just feels like a perverse fantasy for creepy readers to get off to. It’s all discussed in such specific detail too. None of that needed to be in this book whatsoever, and it’s clear that this book is not for survivors in any way, especially with how the author writes children literally enjoying being molested. All of these things are in here just to be taboo. It is not a discussion of sexual trauma or violence in any regard. It romanticizes sexual violence and abuse. Don’t read this. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Grief, Pedophilia, Suicide, Violence, Suicide attempt, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child abuse, Excrement, Incest, Sexual assault, Antisemitism, Blood, Rape, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, and Torture

Don’t fucking read this, my god.

teagangrace's review against another edition

challenging dark reflective sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child death, Incest, and Sexual content