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mbichaela's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Cute but did not live up to previous books in my mind but it does not mean it's not a fantastic romance. The self-discovery aspect added depth to the whole romance and banter both mcs had. The author created a safe space for different topics.
(diversity: lgbtq+ mcs and side characters)
Moderate: Abandonment and Addiction
greatestheights's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.25
Here for all the rep — and Elle's experience with depression is the closest depiction to how my own works that I've ever seen, in fiction or real life.
Graphic: Mental illness
Moderate: Addiction
Foster careaddiesbookshelf_'s review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Mental illness and Abandonment
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, and Sexual content
Minor: Homophobia
duckyreads's review against another edition
4.5
Anita carefully discusses depression, anxiety, being on the ace spectrum, and queerness. Although this can be read as a stand-alone, there are fun cameos from the main couples in the previous books. How You Get the Girl is a brilliant way to finish this series, and I am eagerly looking forward to everything that Anita writes.
Thank you to NetGalley and Forever Publishing for an eARC in exchange for an honest review.
Moderate: Chronic illness and Addiction
Minor: Drug abuse
sambshep's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Mental illness, Abandonment, Addiction, Sexual content, Chronic illness, and Alcoholism
jennireadsmaybe's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
Like everything I've read from Anita Kelly, HYGTG hit me right in the feels. Julie's struggles with her sexuality and her inexperience with romance and sex was handled so well. She's a character that feels like a warm hug. Elle's journey through the foster care system as she takes care of her niece was also handled with so much care. I teared up at so many point in this book because of how deeply I loved the characters.
I'm sad to say goodbye to the Love & Other Disasters universe, but I am also so excited to see what's next for Anita Kelly!!
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia, Mental illness, Sexual content, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Addiction
jukietoss's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.5
Minor: Addiction
bookishmillennial's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
I adored Julie and Elle’s sports romance with a bit of workplace romance (since they end up coaching together!) & “it’s-just-for-practice” — suuuuure Jan! 😊
It’s been eight years since Elle’s infamous departure from the WNBA, after being the shining star of UT (University of Tennessee), and she is now the foster parent of her niece Vanessa, while her cousin Karly takes care of a few things. Elle enrolls Vanessa into Julie’s East Nashville High Bobcats basketball program so she had an extra curricular activity to participate in after school, since Elle’s work in medical billing at Vanderbilt University kept her from picking Vanessa up at 3pm. The CPS employee advised Elle to keep a close eye on Vanessa, as she is deemed a flight risk during the beginning of this foster period. Elle has also been navigating migraines, and unfortunately, her meetcute with Julie ends with one🥺
I really appreciated the nuance with which Elle’s experience of being a foster parent is highlighted; Elle clearly rooted for Karly, yet still held space for grief when reckoning with the fact that Vanessa, a kid she deeply loves and cares for, will not always be living with her or under her care. The foster care system has a lot of work to do, but I felt that AK handled this topic in the book with much grace, care, and the nuance it deserves.
On the other hand, Julie has been grappling with her own purpose in life; she adores coaching this high school basketball team, but her day job of alumni relations at Vanderbilt seems to only suck joy and energy out of her. Julie has also watched her loved ones accomplish such exciting things, like London going on a food competition tv show & meeting Dahlia, or Ben hiking the Pacific Crest Trail & meeting Alexei, his long distance boyfriend. Julie is happy for them, but can’t help but notice she is no longer the first one either of them come to for any big news anymore.
Julie is wrestling with her own sexuality and feelings of incompetency and shame around her lack of experience with romance and sex. She desperately wants to *know* herself, but labels don’t fit quite right. I thought this journey of exploration was illustrated so lovingly and realistically! Goofy side note: when Julie describes only ever being attracted to Elle Cochrane and Manny Jacinto from The Good Place, I nearly lost it with delight and giddiness. That’s a perfectly valid sexuality babe! I GET IT 🤤
I find the plotline of “I’ll help you practice being romantic or sexual” to be absolutely hilarious! I eat it up every time because I am sitting here like giggling and kicking my feet into the air calling them “silly goofy babies” hahaha. You two have sizzling hot chemistry, are clearly deeply invested in the other’s welfare, and have so much fun together; but sure, it’s just to help and to practice 🫡 This was written perfectly and I loved these two stumbling their way towards the inevitable epiphanies that this was indeed not just practice, and instead, was the real spankin’ deal!
The lil epilogue was a beautiful way to tie things up for our three favorite couples and their happily for nows🥹 I really would love to see this group of characters featured on a sitcom! They’re so precious, relatable, and goofy. I love them your honor!
steam rating: 3/5
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Sexual content, Mental illness, and Acephobia/Arophobia
Minor: Addiction
womanwill's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
This slow burn sapphic workplace romance has all the tension and yearning and even a dash of fake dating. Julie Parker feels like she's just spinning her wheels in life as everyone around her falls in love and she still lacks experience as an almost 30 year old. That is, until Julie's childhood crush, and college basketball star Elle Cochrane shows up at one of the girls' basketball practices she is coaching. Soon Elle is both assistant coach and practice dating Julie...but is it really practice?
Read if you're looking for
- "be gay, do sports" vibes
- slow burn
- "practice" dating
- 90s women's basketball vibes 😍
- label exploration
- ace, sapphic & lesbian rep
- depression rep & discussion of mental illness
- trans/nonbinary sibling side characters
- glimpses of Dahlia & London & Ben & Alexei from previous books
- spice
I adored both Julie and Elle as individuals and their chemistry was off the charts as a couple. Seriously the one-on-one game...IYKYK. I loved the inclusion of difficult family dynamics and Elle being a foster parent to Vanessa. I loved the presence of sassy teasing teens to keep their coaches in check. I loved that Elle and Julie are both tall. I loved seeing London and Dahlia get married and Ben move to Portland to be with Alexei. I loved that Julie explored her sexual orientation labels and being on the ace spectrum. I love that a romance author finally admitted that people on antidepressants have a hard time getting off (we have needed that rep for so long).
Honestly there was nothing I didn't love. I am forever an Anita Kelly stan. They consistently write emotionally vulnerable and complex queer romances with heat and the absolute most heart. It's an auto buy for me, and everyone should preorder this book. Out 2/13/24!
Thanks to Forever Pub for the ARC.
Graphic: Sexual content and Mental illness
Moderate: Toxic relationship
Minor: Drug abuse and Addiction