Reviews - 미움받을 용기

미움받을 용기 by Fumitake Koga, Ichiro Kishimi, 전경아

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Sejauh ini, Berani Tidak Disukai karya Ichiro Kishimi dan Fumitake Koga menjadi buku terfavorit di 2022. Penulis memaparkan perbedaan dalam teori psikologi Adler dan Freud, seperti perbedaan aetiologi (studi tentang hubungan sebab akibat) dan teleologi (ilmu yang mempelajari tujuan dari suatu fenomena tertentu ketimbang penyebabnya), serta konsep superioritas dan inferioritas.

Buku ini cukup memberikan awareness bagi pembacanya terkait apa yang terjadi dalam diri seseorang, hingga kaitannya dalam relasi interpersonal. Berikut ini beberapa kutipan yang saya sukai:

✨ "Kalau cara seseorang untuk mendapatkan perasaan berkontribusi ternyata adalah "diakui oleh orang lain", dalam jangka panjang, dia takkan punya pilihan selain berjalan menyusuri hidup sesuai harapan orang lain. Tidak ada kebahagiaan dalam perasaan telah berkontribusi yang diperoleh melalui hasrat untuk diakui."

✨ Hidup adalah serangkaian momen yang disebut "saat ini". Kita hanya bisa hidup di sini pada saat ini. Hidup ini hanya ada dalam berbagai momen.

motherbird76's review against another edition

4.0

challenging inspiring slow-paced

challenging! I probably need to listen again because while I heard some hard truths, I know there were more that I lost because I couldn’t grasp or accept them. The format is written as a young man conversing with an old philosopher and the young man is pretty annoying at times. But it’s worth a listen if you want some challenging reading/listening which does contain hard truths. the main focus is based in Adlerian psychology. Alfred Adler. Chose the book for the summer reading challenge (balance beam: read a book about finding balance). Glad I read it. Not sure might buy it on audible since I have a credit. There’s a waiting list in Libby…

abbyyy_lynnnn's review against another edition

DID NOT FINISH: 51%

Was boring and dragging along.

rugbykake's review against another edition

4.5

challenging dark reflective medium-paced

plantvolcano's review against another edition

4.0

adventurous challenging emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring medium-paced

Imma write a full review later lol-super great tho!!!

mina's review against another edition

Though I don’t *fully* agree with Adlerian psychology (mostly the erasure of “trauma), I thought this was a really pleasant read and raised a lot of important points in how to live a fulfilling life. The Socratic dialogue structure of it made all the concepts easy to digest. Will be sitting with this one for awhile.