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bookish_jlp's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Cancer, Death of parent, Grief, and Terminal illness
Minor: Infidelity and Abortion
kaylaswhitmore's review
5.0
Graphic: Cancer, Fatphobia, Grief, Terminal illness, Chronic illness, Death, Death of parent, Drug use, Medical trauma, Medical content, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Addiction, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Cursing, Car accident, Infidelity, and Body shaming
Minor: Vomit
khiggins2's review
4.5
Graphic: Cancer, Death of parent, and Grief
Minor: Infidelity, Abortion, and Racism
bethsreading's review against another edition
(I do not give star ratings for memoirs)
Graphic: Death, Medical trauma, Grief, Vomit, Cancer, Alcoholism, Death of parent, and Medical content
Moderate: Mental illness, Infidelity, Excrement, Abortion, and Racism
ruffian23's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Grief, Death of parent, Cancer, Medical content, Terminal illness, and Death
Minor: Car accident, Abortion, Infidelity, and Alcoholism
20sidedbi's review against another edition
Graphic: Grief, Death of parent, Cancer, Chronic illness, and Terminal illness
Minor: Racism, Car accident, Addiction, Alcohol, and Infidelity
ceruleanseas's review
4.0
Graphic: Terminal illness, Death of parent, Cancer, and Grief
Moderate: Alcohol and Medical content
Minor: Cursing, Abortion, and Infidelity
booksanna's review
5.0
Graphic: Cancer, Terminal illness, and Death of parent
Moderate: Body shaming and Bullying
Minor: Abortion, Car accident, Violence, Infidelity, Medical content, and Alcohol
toastyghosty13's review
4.0
The only mistake I made in opening this book was to choose to read it while visiting my parents during Thanksgiving break; it made me even more sentimental and concerned for their health and well being. While I do not condone some of the rhetoric between Michelle and her mother, Michelle loved her mother and this book made me be more aware of the love I constantly have for my parents no matter what.
Michelle's relationship with her mother was tumultuous while growing up.
Michelle eventually found out that her mother had
This book is a love letter to her mother, but also a critical analysis of her father.
Between all of this, Michelle does recount her experiences of trying to find a place of belonging, although not as majorly as the content on her parents. She discusses feeling like an outside in different communities because she is too far from the norm for any of them, "too korean or too white". It was heartbreaking to read about how she was very alone in a lot of this until her adult years where she forged meaningful relationships with bandmates and her significant other, Peter. It made me so so happy that Peter was as supportive as he was. He hung in there through all of Michelle taking care of her mother, and their life choices like school and jobs plunging them into long distance. I did long distance with my now fiance for years, it was incredibly difficult but worth it in the end. It seems to have worked out for Michelle and Peter as well, since they got married right before her mothers death so that she could attend the wedding.
The ending of this book had a nice turn around where Michelle talks about her success in later years. Her music has granted her some limelight, and she even starts touring internationally. This book comes to a close following her tour and how the last show is in Korea near some relatives. She is able to go there and it almost feels as if she has some closure, being able to live her dreams creating music and spending time with those she loves.
This book is beautifully written. It will make you ugly cry and put you in a horrible mood the entire time but it is completely worth it. It reminds you of how the relationships with the ones you love most, whether they are blood family or found, are the most important thing even through some of the hardships (obviously not all hardships).
Graphic: Death of parent, Cancer, Death, and Medical content
Moderate: Drug abuse, Car accident, Racism, Xenophobia, Toxic relationship, Drug use, and Infidelity
Minor: Abortion, Vomit, and Excrement
mmalone's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Medical content, Bullying, Cancer, Body shaming, Death of parent, Grief, Infidelity, and Car accident