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4.5

I find it hard to rate a book of essays - many of these essays made me feel so much. The ones to which I couldn't relate as much felt a little more like a drag to get through. Usually I love a book read by its author, but prose read by a poet can actually be hit and miss (for me personally I guess).

Some of the essays hit deep and others seemed, idk, a little unfinished? But still beautiful.

I loved the concept - it was almost like memoir plus social/political commentary through the lens of music criticism. All things I love, especially when early pop punk is involved. I can't wait to read Abdurraqib's poetry.

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4.75


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sydapel's review

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5.0

Truly some of the best writing about music and culture I've come across. I'd seen this recommended in various places across my feed, but it was Mel on TikTok that convinced me when they described it as writing that really captured what it's like to love or be a fan of music/sports/etc in our current social climate, how communities are shaped by the attitudes of their leaders and what it's like to be a minority in many of these spaces. Can't recommend it enough. 

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savvylit's review against another edition

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5.0

Recently I posted a stack of books that made me feel glad to be alive. I had just finished They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us and already knew that it would effortlessly fit in that stack alongside Abdurraqib's other collection A Little Devil in America. Abdurraqib writes with an unmatched clarity and beauty about what it means to be human. Running through it all is the personal; Abdurraqib's unique perspective as a poet, as a music critic, as a Black man, as someone who grew up Muslim. Ultimately, though, these essays seem to speak to universal truths. The high highs, the low lows, and the art - especially the music - that carries us and keeps us connected. That's what living is about.

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5.0


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4.75


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blackberryjambaby's review

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4.75


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4.25

This is one of those books that I don’t feel smart enough to read and I mean that as a compliment. The poetry and criticism are so sharp and deep and wholly human. The stories are horrifying and harrowing but also hopeful and fascinating. I learned a ton and I know these essays are going to haunt me for days to come 

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5.0

I wish I had read this book earlier.  I don't have a lot of words to describe this experience.  In short, it was incredible and it is a must-read for everyone.  Abdurraqib's writing is beautiful and accessible.  There is so much emotion, it is impossible to keep it all in while reading.  He has inspired me to think about the ways music has impacted and interwoven itself in my life. 

You don't have to have heard all of the artists, albums, and songs he mentions to read his essays, but I feel it might help.  He gives readers the vibe of his references and it's pretty easy to understand how the music fits in the context.  It will certainly open the doors to new-to-you music.  I listened to Carly Rae Jepsen's Emotion after reading the first essay on it and, again, why did I wait so long to listen?  

His stories and experiences on being black in the United States are a number of things: difficult, informative, joyful.  Empathy is one of the most important feelings to be human.  I read the 5th anniversary edition, the first edition was published in 2017.  He writes on the turbulent year of 2016 and shortly after.  What he has to say in this book continues to be relevant in 2023.

As a person who resides in the Columbus area, it was interesting to learn about Columbus through his perspective.  I don't know a lot about the city, I've been here a little over a year and half.  But knowing Columbus isn't a requirement, just a little perk.

I look forward to reading more of his work.  I cannot recommend this book enough.  It might be cliche to say, but my life was changed by this book.

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5.0

 - THEY CAN’T KILL US UNTIL THEY KILL US might be the single best essay collection I’ve ever read in my life. Abdurraqib is one of those writers who is able to cut clear to the heart of existence in just a few sentences, and I’m continually in awe of his craft.
- It does help that I was big into the 2000s emo scene, which many of the early essays in this book center on. No, YOU cried about Fall Out Boy while reading this book!
- It’s not just about the music, though, it never is with his writing. Music is life, and it illuminates what it’s like live in Abdurraqib’s body in this world. 

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