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They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us by Hanif Abdurraqib

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5.0

atreegrowsinbooks's review against another edition

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5.0

Probably one of my favorite collections of essays I’ve ever read. I don’t think I’ll be able to adequately review this book. 

Hanif Abdurraqib writes with such lyricism that it almost felt like listening to music as he narrated these works. The audio version was remarkable and I’ll be sure to grab a physical copy to mark some of my favorite passages. 

“What I really want to do is say that life is impossible, and the lie we tell ourselves is that it is too short. Life, if anything, is too long. We accumulate too much along the way. Too many heartbreaks, too many funerals, too many physical setbacks. It's a miracle any of us survive at all.”

“The thing about grief is that it never truly leaves. From the moment it enters you, it becomes something you are always getting over. I will take healing in whatever form I can…”

“No one decides when the people we love are actually gone. May we all be buried on our own terms.”

“That maybe, what we see when we close our eyes is better than anything the living world could offer us in our waking hours.”

“It is hard to keep missing someone when there's no way to tell how long you've been without them. When everything blurs into a singular and brilliant darkness.”

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4.5

azrael's review against another edition

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5.0

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aarons's review against another edition

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5.0

madif's review against another edition

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4.0

aniania's review

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5.0

hilaryannbrown's review against another edition

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5.0

Easily the best collection of essays I've read. Hanif writes at the intersection of cultural commentary and personal reflection, about music as a time capsule for both moments in our lives and moments in shared history.

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5.0

Absolutely fantastic! Hanif is an expert storyteller and critic. He talks about a lot of well known artists, like Carly Rae Jepsen and Macklemore, but also some I didn’t know but that didn’t affect my enjoyment of the essays. The personal stories he included were very impactful and had us look at music through his eyes based on his experience as a man of color. I really liked a lot of the essays at the end and the way he narrates the book. Definitely gonna need a physical copy!