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Dear Senthuran: A Black Spirit Memoir by Akwaeke Emezi

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solenodon's review against another edition

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challenging emotional slow-paced

5.0


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hogsandwich's review against another edition

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challenging dark mysterious reflective medium-paced

4.5

Theyre definitely a genius. Theyre also, I suspect, very difficult to be around.

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The narration style felt repetitive and I feel like I got what I wanted to get from the book. About halfway through the memoir I  couldn’t follow it as closely anymore. 

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emotional reflective slow-paced

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challenging informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0


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dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

3.0


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krn's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective slow-paced

4.25

I love the writing style and the depth of commentary and detail. This book is tough and there is no getting around that. Emezi does not, nor should they, shy away from writing about honesty, hardship, and pain. This creates a book that breaks down genre boundaries and is really unlike any other read. 

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5.0

This book was so bold a creation, so extraordinary an experience. It is essentially a follow up to Freshwater, this time rightfully labeled as memoir. It's their story as a series of epistolary essays. I'd recommend reading Freshwater first, since it will provide additional explanation and context for things like their ȯgbanje identity, the brothersisters, some of their relationship with Yshwa, and more about their childhood and youth (Since I had already read it beforehand, I am not certain how much may need clarification without it). Dear Senthuran touches on those things, but its focus is more on their adulthood as well as philosophy behind their identities, spiritualities, relationships, work, life, etc.

Emezi's goals were to write truly of their personal experiences and to put those ideas out there for Black readers in particular. That said, I strongly urge other white readers not to shy away. We need to read and think about these things with honest reflection. So much of how we've harmed others and ourselves comes out of operating on narrow views and letting bad ideas calcify into accepted norms. Learning that this isn't how things are or should be helps work on dismantling these cages. There is still so much in here to relate to, and a lot that we can also find freeing, if we're willing to listen and think on it.

I would advise being prepared to go into this in the right headspace. It's at least as brutal and breathtaking as Freshwater, with a lot of heavy things covered in heavy detail. There are in-depth looks at depression, suicidal ideation and attempts, death, and a small section including fantasies of cannibalism.

I took my reading slow to let things percolate and avoid being overwhelmed. It was such a rewarding experience. Emezi remains a favorite, and I look forward to their upcoming projects. 

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tenten's review against another edition

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5.0

yeah so... i worship Akwaeke Emezi. i have been a worshipper for quite a while, but this book....phew.

it took me a year to read Freshwater. when i have high expectations for a book i get afraid because in many cases, they do not meet those expectations. Freshwater did, and did more by exceeding them. it was an incredible book. i berated myself for doubting Akwaeke's power but i vowed to never do it again. a couple of months after i read freshwater, PET came out and i was lucky enough to meet Akwaeke, to bask in their light for a while. i'm framing the photo we took together. 

Dear Senthuran can be considered a sequel or follow up to Freshwater, in which Akwaeke expands upon being ogbanje, their unwavering spirituality and faith, their journey finding success in a restrictive industry. deeply personal, yet very much a work of theory, this memoir-in-letters was truly something special. i learned so much, both about a non-human that i idolize, igbo ontologies, spirituality, and navigating the publishing industry.

obviously, as a budding writer myself, the letters to Nonso were particularly relavant to me. i admired their transparency about how they navigated the publishing industry. their experiences helped me to unlearn some beliefs i have about how i have to follow certain steps to reach my goals. i don't need to publish short stories in major journals before trying to publish a book. i don't need to complete an MFA. there are other ways.

beyond that, though, i learned about having confidence in myself and my work. about not shrinking or doubting myself when i know i'm that bitch. about the good of arrogance. about trusting the work and letting that be the key to your success. about advocating for yourself. about death.

it was so amazing to witness their maturity as a writer, too. Freshwater was already a work of art, but this was really something. the metaphors!! DAZZLING! 

their mind is so unique, their work is so groundbreaking, they are so so so incredible. i'm awed!

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