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julesadventurezone's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Blood, Drug use, Abortion, Transphobia, Infidelity, Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, Alcohol, Domestic abuse, and Grief
Moderate: Alcoholism, Hate crime, Deadnaming, Dysphoria, Self harm, Stalking, Xenophobia, and Homophobia
Minor: Eating disorder, Genocide, Death of parent, and Antisemitism
karol99's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Grief, Sexual content, Dysphoria, Infertility, Miscarriage, Outing, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Death, Toxic relationship, Physical abuse, Drug use, Alcohol, Blood, Domestic abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Medical trauma, Miscarriage, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, and Child death
Minor: Transphobia
brnineworms's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Exceptionally well-written, until the ending where it felt like the brakes were slammed; it faltered then just kind of stopped, and not in a satisfyingly unsatisfying way. Still, I liked it a lot.
Graphic: Grief, Infidelity, Outing, Dysphoria, Sexism, Misogyny, Pregnancy, Sexual content, Stalking, Toxic relationship, and Transphobia
Moderate: Abortion, Hate crime, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Deadnaming, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicide attempt, Blood, Chronic illness, Suicide, Violence, Cursing, Injury/Injury detail, Miscarriage, Self harm, and Sexual assault
Minor: Ableism, Animal cruelty, Pedophilia, Rape, Suicidal thoughts, Lesbophobia, Medical content, Classism, Forced institutionalization, Incest, Murder, Racism, Eating disorder, Trafficking, Car accident, Infertility, Adult/minor relationship, Animal death, and Colonisation
katieb_'s review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Outing, Physical abuse, Sexual violence, Transphobia, and Hate crime
Moderate: Death
Minor: Abortion and Suicide
grainjordan's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Xenophobia, Transphobia, Violence, Sexual content, Pregnancy, Miscarriage, Hate crime, Abortion, Toxic relationship, Dysphoria, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Outing, Suicide attempt, and Infidelity
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Suicide attempt, Suicide, Deadnaming, Drug use, and Homophobia
tomato_bisque's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Reese's thoughts about womanhood in relation to men and motherhood is something that a lot of women relate to. Motherhood is seen as the ultimate form of womanhood. Those who do not give birth or those that forgo motherhood altogether are not "real women."
Since this form of womanhood is not afforded to Reese, violent masculinity is used to highlight her femininity. She is kept secret by her lovers, often leading to abuse and toxic relationships. Reese notes that the hardness and violence of men makes her softness and femininity stand out. There is a point later in the book when Reese rolls her eyes at a cis woman's excitement of her cis husband playing the stereotypic rugged man. This contrast makes that cis woman feel at home with her identity. Which is something that Reese does, albeit in a different way.
The other main character, Ames, struggles with his gender identity. He uses masculinity as a way to avoid pain. Being in his body as a women opened him up new internal emotions and suffering, as well as opression by wider society. Detransitioning into a man made it easy to blend in, become invisible. When the prospect of him becoming a father comes up, he panics.
In the end, this is a tragic story about how gender confines all of us. Its messy as hell.
Graphic: Transphobia, Hate crime, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Infidelity, Pregnancy, Sexual content, Suicide attempt, Emotional abuse, and Miscarriage
Minor: Drug use
tinylittlerat's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Lesbophobia, Transphobia, Sexual content, Hate crime, Deadnaming, Toxic relationship, Physical abuse, Outing, Miscarriage, Homophobia, and Dysphoria
Moderate: Abortion and Suicide attempt
varielble's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Transphobia and Hate crime
miryame's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Suicide, Transphobia, Dysphoria, Abortion, Domestic abuse, Hate crime, Miscarriage, Outing, and Racism
cereads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Transphobia, Pregnancy, Sexual content, and Infidelity
Moderate: Hate crime, Outing, Abortion, Dysphoria, and Grief
Minor: Suicide, Suicide attempt, Miscarriage, Death, and Medical content