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Spare by Prince Harry

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mads_reads_books's review against another edition

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I wish Harry had taken more ownership of the impacts of his actions. Particularly when talking about the time he wore a Nazi uniform to a party. He simply says he feels great shame and that he spoke with a rabbi to learn more about the Holocaust. In this time of antisemitism and hate crimes I think it was dismissive of Harry not to speak further to denounce and condemn antisemitism within this work or even to apologize for and condemn the other young men in particular who likely felt emboldened and supported by him due to this costume to act on and publicly share their own antisemitic beliefs 

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ellaticonstellation's review against another edition

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I have no background about the British monarch or any other one compared to diving into this book. I read this book out of curiosity about Harry and Meghan (Because I've watched Suits before, and I love Rachel, it made me sad when she had to leave the show); the paps were ridiculous, invading people's privacy for photos. Damn, they ruined people's lives. (I know it's their job and all, but still) I saw the advantages and disadvantages of his status. It cost his mum's life. It must be so sad to lose your mother so early. He is privileged and all, but how down-to-earth he was even fangirling over Courtney Cox (aka Monica Geller from Friends, Haha! Spoiler alert: he mentioned that he was a Chandler); I truly enjoyed this memoir because Harry was funny and had a good heart (I say this because he made the paralympics happen and it gave people hope)

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4.5

Read the full review here: Review of Spare by Prince Harry 
I am happy for Harry that he is getting the help he needs to learn how to cope with his trauma, deeply entertained by the entire royal drama (seeing as it doesn't involve me and I am, against my better judgement, a Royal Watcher) and believe that he is, in fact, speaking the truth. For the most part. It helps that this is his face and that he doesn't shy away from names (for the most part).
It is relatively easy to read, this book. It is short and direct, and Harry's humour is intensely acidic and self-derisive. He isn't shy about making a fool of himself, touching on aspects that don't, necessarily, depict him in the most beneficial light.
No matter how much he says he wrote this book to help his family understand, that his end goal wasn't to shame them... I don't necessarily believe it. His depictions of some of his family members are eye-opening and made me think about why he would write them if not to shame them.  That being said, he does share some light on some of them, and mostly, (mostly), portrays them in a flattering way. 

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caitiedundas's review

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I’m a bit ashamed to have read this but my curiosity got the better of me.

Mostly I just found it very sad. I think the book has been sensationalised by the leaked quotes and early sound bites, mostly about Harry’s penis, but the actual content is desperately sad. He comes across as a deeply traumatised, anxious man who is clearly haunted by a childhood and adolescence which sounds pretty grim despite the immense wealth and privilege. It’s very difficult not to empathise with him for his difficult experiences. I particularly enjoyed the first portion of the book, covering his childhood and early adolescence. It was interesting to get a look into this period and I felt he came across the most sincere in these parts. Not that his sincerity was something I really doubted later on in the book, but it was most pronounced early. 

That being said, where I struggled to empathise was when it seemed like assertions were being made to try and ensure Harry came across as ‘a normal guy’. This is the worst in the second half of the book with passages dedicated to his supermarket routines, TK Max visits, etcetera. It seemed as though he was determined to come across as any old pleb, when it’s clear this simply isn’t the case, and this is something he does acknowledge in other areas of the book. In a passage near the end he recounts never having ordered an Amazon parcel, or held a house key, so he is clearly well aware of his unconventionally sheltered and elevated lifestyle, making the repeated attempts to situate himself as an ‘ordinary’ person all the more puzzling. Add to that the copious mentions of exclusive members club Soho House, plenty of occasions of friends with spare mansions, lots of monetary talk. The guy is clearly wealthy and privileged, and the book would be better for it if his honesty there was more consistent. 

The writing was decent. Nothing I felt particularly blown away by but it was an enjoyable, fast paced read. The atmospheric descriptions, in particular, I thought were strong, and the themes which strung throughout the memoir and motifs which popped up repeatedly were used effectively (the flag, the biro, etc). 

Not really a critique of the book as it is indeed reality but it was sad that the book ended on a rather negative note, with evidently little contact between Harry and his Royal family. It feels like quite an open ending, something I suspect is purposeful for another book.

Overall - a decent read! Despite being long it remained pretty fast paced and only took me a few days to read, with a fairly moderate amount of time dedicated to reading each day. Wouldn’t have spent the full price or indeed the current standard half price on it, but the nice it ends up in the charity shops it is absolutely worth a wee read!

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lhodgson26's review

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4.0

 I originally didn't want to read this book out of respect for the Royal Family, however I saw a clip of one of the interviews where Harry said for years we had been drip fed an alternative reality from the Palace itself from 'Royal Sources' so he just wanted to get his view across. Whatever your opinion is on the royal family and Harry and Meghan I beg of you to read this. It is brutally honest, reflective and very sad. Not only did the Paparazzi take his mother away, his mental health, his freedom and his counrry it nearly cost him family. I am shocked that when they had to flee their security had been taken away when their address had been published. I don't understand how any father or brother can let that happen let alone be the ones associated with those responsible for helping plant the false stories. It is clear the love Harrry has for his country and his family, the most of the hatred is at the paparazzi and those who feed them. Yes there are some uncomfortable parts for Charles, William, Kate and Camilla but I bet he could have revealed a lot worse with only hinting at Camillas medelling and partoniship with the press. The fact they deliberately planted false stories when he was merely a child grieving for his mother to help shine Charles and Camilla in a positive light is truly sickening. Charles comes across quiet well and its clear William has some own issues he needs to deal with. After decades of being protrayed wrongle and used as a pawn I'm surprised it took Harry this long to share his story. Harry lost so much at such a young age including is mother and his best friend yet had to pretend he was fine and had absolutely no support to help process his trauma. I am ashamed at Britain for believing the blatant lies and encouraging the racism aimed at Meghan. Also it is not until about 2/3 of the way through is Meghan introduced there is so much before which he had to endure and was fed like a pig to slaughter multiple times. The only criticism is the level of detail which in some cases may not have been required to the reader like all the drug use but I admire his honesty. I applaud Harry for speaking out and hope this helps to silence the papers, haters and glad he is happy. 

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