tinyhandsmcgee's review against another edition

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5.0

Really enjoyed the harmony between storytelling and self-reflection. I’m always curious about the ME’s perspective in high profile cases and casualties. Really enjoyed this.

cheryl6of8's review against another edition

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4.0

A fascinating look at the work of a Medico-Legal Investigator for the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner in NYC. I only meant to peek at it for a second and ended up reading the whole thing in an afternoon. The running of the morgue and the work with doctors and hospitals and police and families was very fascinating. (Interestingly, the medical advisor at my job has made statements agreeing with the author that most doctors do not have the foggies idea how to fill out a death certificate and that no one should take one at face value unless issued after an autopsy.)

Most interesting and compelling and heartbreaking was the discussion of the aftermath of 9/11. The author was at that time in charge of handling the identification of the dead, which turned into a gargantuan task after 9/11 given the state of the remains recovered. He provided an absolutely fascinating look at the organization and management of the system he had to devise on the spot and at the things that went wrong (surprisingly few) and the things that were learned from the horror of it all. I learned quite a few things from this book that were never discussed in the news coverage -- the hard feelings that exist between the NYPD and FDNY and the families over the 2 classifications of victims and the disparate treatment, the length of time the fire continued to burn and the details of deaths, the fact that remains of four of the hijackers were found and identified but no death certificate has ever been issued, and the sheer outpouring of appreciation that the OCME team received doing their difficult work.

Altogether a great read and one that will likely stick with me for a while.

innae's review against another edition

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4.0

This memoir spends about half the book relaying Ribowsky's life - and how he ended up at the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner for New York city, and then the second half of the book focuses on what happened surrounding the 9/11 World Trade Center attacks. Ribowsky keeps things as light as he can, but I still cried. He was obviously a light for many of the victim's families.

He also ends with the discussion on why he is no longer with the OCME, and it brought up memories of how many of our first in cops at the Century 16 shooting in Aurora are no longer cops. Once you have that defining moment in your career it is hard to find the passion to stay with just normal day to day. Also, the trauma can affect you in ways you didn't realize.

I really enjoyed this book.

bluesleepy's review against another edition

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dark emotional informative sad medium-paced

3.0

bookedrightmeow's review

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challenging dark emotional informative inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

5.0

• Kind of stunned that this book isn't more well-known. I was riveted every time I picked it up
• Covers the author's time as a New York medicolegal investigator, dispatched to everything from natural deaths to homicides
• Definitely not for the faint of heart. Never gets gratuitous but goes into a lot of medical details
• Shares an extensive history about the author's involvement in the 9/11 recovery efforts and years-long victim identification process
• Also delves into the author's upbringing in an Orthodox Jewish family and what led him to a career in medicine
• Written with the utmost respect and compassion for the victims he encountered, as well as for their families

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kellymy's review

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Just didn’t engage me. I’ve been spoiled by Caitlin Doughty. 

rachaelmcgovern's review

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dark emotional informative sad fast-paced

4.25

raehink's review

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3.0

First half of the book: 4 stars for all the forensic information and a pretty clear and detailed description of the New York Medical Examiner's office and daily activity. I also enjoyed the personal information the author shared about his Jewish background.

Second half of the book: 2 stars for not being as good as the first half. I was disappointed that the World Trade Center bombings and subsequent victim identification process pretty much took over the rest of the book.

All in all, quite an interesting read.