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DNF at 31%

dvogel's review

5.0
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lacywrites's review

3.75
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thebookblondie's review

0.25
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I realized this audiobook was causing me to suffer from a painful boredom when I turned it off and drove to work in complete silence and decided that the wiz of passing cars was more pleasing to the ear than listening to this book.
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First, big thanks to Libro.fm and Harper Audio for the audio review copy of this book! I’d been looking forward to it for a while, because I’m a big fan of Jami Attenberg’s substack newsletter, “Craft Talk,” and her annual 1000 Words of Summer write-a-thon.

I Came All This Way to Meet You is one of my favorite kinds of memoirs: about an ordinary life, made meaningful in the details. There’s no denying that Attenberg is a great writer of words, and it shows here. The book is honest, funny, heartfelt, sincere, and very generous.

I will say that the narration style of the audiobook wasn’t my favorite. (She did not read it herself, FYI.) Some people may prefer it; I think it was meant to be a more expressive style. But for me, I think the intonation distracted a bit from what were, underneath, really resonant and hard-hitting sentences. I may decide to reread a print copy in the future. But the book itself is excellent enough that I really enjoyed it anyway.

Thank you, Jami, for sharing this gift with us.

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I have read many of the individual essays that make up this memoir about becoming a writer and finding a metaphorical home in books, friends, and places; seeing them all together in one book (and assuming they were transformed from single pieces to a cohesive narrative) was gratifying and emotional. I especially liked the last few chapters and the feelings of reconciliation and self-recognition in them. This is definitely an inward-looking examination of Attenberg's experiences writing novels and feeling untethered, so if that's something that bothers you about memoir in general, know that going in. But for me, I am all for the inward gaze especially if it all comes together in the end.

daniellehelen's review

4.25
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I didn’t expect that this book would speak to me on a personal level. I’ve shed a few tears because in some parts, I could totally relate to the author.