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akaspiderlily's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Abandonment, Homophobia, Suicide, Pedophilia, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Rape, and Child abuse
Moderate: Child death, Deadnaming, Suicide, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual assault, Body shaming, Bullying, Fatphobia, Incest, Medical content, Physical abuse, Toxic friendship, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, and Addiction
zee's review against another edition
4.0
I really liked how the book shows how deeply McLeod's childhood and young adult years were intertwined with his mother and her story. The last few chapters are especially powerful.
Be VERY mindful of content warnings.
Graphic: Homophobia, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Alcoholism, and Pedophilia
Moderate: Deadnaming, Transphobia, Suicide attempt, Child abuse, Medical content, Death, Forced institutionalization, Suicide, Infidelity, Terminal illness, Adult/minor relationship, and Racism
Minor: Drug use and Domestic abuse
amanda_marie's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Grief, Pedophilia, Sexual violence, Child abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Suicide attempt, Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Alcoholism, Hate crime, Toxic relationship, and Abandonment
Moderate: Death of parent, Drug abuse, Medical content, Religious bigotry, Drug use, Death, Racial slurs, Racism, and Deadnaming
memorable's review against another edition
There are a lot of TWs for this one. I listed them all as graphic as it’s really hard for me to “rank” them.
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Deadnaming, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Forced institutionalization, Grief, Homophobia, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Religious bigotry, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, and Violence
Intergenerational traumasbcrra's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Alcoholism, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Pedophilia, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Transphobia and Deadnaming
suzyreadsbooks's review against another edition
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Deadnaming, Racism, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Transphobia, and Homophobia
Moderate: Death of parent, Death, and Suicide
Minor: Antisemitism
other TWs that are included in this book: residential schoolsxoodlebooks's review against another edition
Mamaskatch: A Cree Coming of Age by Darrel J. McLeod is a raw memoir about a gay Cree boy growing up and discovering himself while facing intergenerational trauma and complicated family relationships. It is told in a nonlinear fashion. The author talks frankly about his experiences growing up as a gay Cree boy and the tremendous amount of trauma and abuse he faced.
McLeod writes about the internalized homophobia and racism he faced growing up because of the Catholic Church. He also writes about his mother’s horrific experiences in residential school. This book made the way religion was/is weaponized by colonizers very clear.
This book is very heavy; you should take care when reading it. Please note the content warnings.
McLeod frequently misgenders his transgender sister, Trina, and refers to her by her deadname. At first, I wondered if it was just a questionable stylistic choice, but in the author’s note, he refers to her as his brother/sister and deadname/Trina. I don’t know if he discussed this with his sister.
There is also a scene where McLeod refers to suicide as selfish. I haven’t seen anybody mention this, so I thought I would warn people.
Memoirs are deeply personal, so I do not want to rate this book. I will say that I am glad I read it!
This was the February book for Erin and Dani’s Book Club (Instagram: @ErinAndDanisBookClub). Thank you so much to Erin and Dani for the work you do to organize this club!
Finally, I am a White settler, so I want to direct you to reviews of Mamaskatch by Indigenous readers. I highly recommend checking out @Erins_Library, @Floury_Words, and @ThunderbirdWomanReads’s reviews on Instagram. You should follow them! They have amazing pages!
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Biphobia, Blood, Bullying, Child abuse, Deadnaming, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Genocide, Grief, Homophobia, Incest, Infidelity, Kidnapping, Medical content, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Religious bigotry, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Violence, and Vomit
Moderate: Car accident, Excrement, and Terminal illness
Residential schools, Internalized homophobia, Grooming, Misgendering, Cheating, Religious trauma, Foster careemzireads's review against another edition
Moderate: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Suicide, and Sexual violence
Minor: Deadnaming
katjoyphil's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Deadnaming, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Grief, Incest, Miscarriage, Pedophilia, Racism, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Toxic relationship
charleyroxy's review against another edition
4.75
This quote from Mamaskatch by Darrel J. McLeod not only stood out to me because it was the way Darrel also told us his story but it reminded me of how Ernestine Hayes told us her story in Blonde Indian. I am growing to love these spiralling stories when they would have once confused me. Nothing in the story of our lives is truly linear as we are being moved along with memories of the past and ideas, hopes and dreams of the future.
"The word, mamaskatch, has stuck with me over the years. Mom used to say it a lot when we were kids when things happened that were a bit extraordinary. I gave the book that title after going online with some fluent Cree speakers. I asked them what it meant and they gave various meanings, ranging from, 'How strange' to 'It's a miracle.' It is the perfect title." From a 2018 interview with McLeod
Mamaskatch is a heartbreaking and often extraordinary Cree memoir which brought up incredibly heavy topics of residential school abuses, child sexual abuse, internalised and externalised homophobia to name a few. I will add the full content warnings on Storygraph so go there to see what you should be prepared for. In the face of all that though comes the story of resilience. I would definitely recommend it.
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Child abuse, Deadnaming, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Grief, Miscarriage, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racism, Sexual violence, Suicide, Addiction, Drug abuse, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Rape, Religious bigotry, and Transphobia
There are scenes of grooming a young child, an exorcism and conversion therapy as well.