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lemonadeandrice's review

4.0

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just_curious34's review

4.5
dark emotional hopeful informative medium-paced

I started this book and immediately said "I think this is going to be one of my favorite books of 2025."

This book is written as an open letter to Gupta's mother. It's born out of a desire for her mom to see her  in a way that's never been fully allowed, and for the world to see her family in a way that's never been fully allowed. 

On the outside, Gupta's family is picture-perfect and has "achieved" the American Dream. But on the inside, this drive to perform perfection and success has warped their relationships -- with each other and with themselves -- acting like a parasite that eats them from the inside out. This is an important take on mental health, abuse, and the dangers of the "model-minority" myth.
challenging emotional inspiring reflective tense medium-paced
challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense slow-paced

borrows's review

5.0
emotional medium-paced

othersimmons's review

4.25
emotional reflective medium-paced

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rebeccaashton's review

4.5
dark emotional reflective medium-paced
dark emotional reflective medium-paced

sam0330's review

4.25
emotional reflective sad tense fast-paced
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genebean91's review

5.0

5/5
One of the most heartbreaking yet beautiful memoirs I’ve listened to. It broke me to listen to the author’s voice crack in pain and fighting back tears as she reflects through her own memories, comes to terms with the turbulent truths about her familial and personal relationships, and recounts her own ongoing journey to reclaim her sense of self and space in the face of everything. It’s so raw, poignant, triggering and hard to experience as an outsider but so important to acknowledge in the perspectives it shares of the unspoken generational trauma provoked by the american dream, racism, the survivors of abuse, and feminism