leahlovesloslibros's review against another edition

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informative reflective medium-paced

3.5

While I don't think I was really in the right mindset for this book at the time of reading it, I still appreciated it. I have been actively trying to learn more about the aro/ace community for awhile now, and part of that included wanting to read this book. 

I liked that there were different peoples' accounts of their personal experience(s) with aromanticism and asexuality, as well as connections to both research and popular culture. The variety of sources made for a well-rounded read, plus it was evident that the author really did their research. Some chapters were more engaging than others, and I definitely found myself nodding my head or even vocalizing my thoughts or agreement many times while listening.

Another facet of this book that made it a very interesting read was that it focused a lot on intersectionality. The more I read and learn and expand my knowledge of intersectionality, the more I am coming to really appreciate that rarely does any person experience life through only one lens - whether it be their perception of the world or others' perception(s) of them. Intersectionality needs to be discussed much more, and become widespread knowledge, in my opinion. This book did a great job of weaving aromantic and/or asexual experiences with other forms of minority status, including a focus on individuals with disabilities, which was very eye-opening for me.

Even the expert on asexuality could learn something from this book. Although I'm only rating it 3.5 
stars (due to not being in the right head space to read it right now, otherwise it would probably be a 4 star read), I'm definitely considering it a must-read.

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informative medium-paced

3.25


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liteartha's review against another edition

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hopeful informative reflective
as i’ve very recently begun questioning my own potential ace/aro spectrum identity, the emotional impact here has dramatically coloured my reading experience, but this was such a solid read! informative, nuanced, and reflective. i really appreciated the balance between the journalistic writing style and personal anecdotes/insights, as well as the emphasis throughout on the intersections of other identities (gender, race, disability, etc.) within the ace framework  

in particular, the section in chapter seven about the concept of QPPs (queerplatonic partners) validated and gave language to an existing partnership in my life in a way that nothing else ever has and quite nearly made me cry at work while listening to the audiobook so thanks for that, angela chen! 

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