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scmiller's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
4.0
Graphic: Violence, Domestic abuse, Gaslighting, Mental illness, Grief, Child abuse, Confinement, Death, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racism, Sexism, Toxic relationship, and War
Moderate: Body shaming, Genocide, Suicidal thoughts, and Infidelity
mdavis26's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Islamophobia, Suicidal thoughts, Emotional abuse, Genocide, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, War, Death of parent, and Gaslighting
booksbeyondthebinary's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
5.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, and Mental illness
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Physical abuse, and Racism
Minor: Genocide and Death of parent
silversparkles50's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, and Mental illness
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Death of parent
serendipitysbooks's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.75
In this book Rum did a couple of things really well. One is the way she showcased intergenerational trauma, drawing clear links between the Nakba, the trauma based (and trauma causing) behaviours of Yara’s parents, and some of her own struggles. Another is the way she portrayed Yara’s emotions in a way that was so easy to empathise with that it hurt to read. I could feel her claustrophobia, her frustration at not being seen, her struggle to reconcile her dreams and aspirations with her family and cultural background, her guilt at not obeying, her pain at feeling that her emotions and aspirations were somehow wrong. At one point I actually needed to put the book aside to give my heart time to recover, and that is something I rarely do. For a time Yara made no progress, seemingly stuck in a cycle of unhappiness. While this was somewhat frustrating to read it also felt very accurate and true to life, an on the page representation of her life. Therapy was unable to make a difference until Yara was both willing to engage and able to find a therapist she felt comfortable with, but then it helped her make some big breakthroughs. I loved the friendship that developed between Silas (and his mother) and Yara. So refreshing to see a friendship between a male and female with no sexual overtones or other ulterior motives. It was also a good reminder of how a little kindness can make a big difference in someone’s life, and some of the joys to be found in cross-cultural friendships.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Mental illness
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Genocide and Islamophobia
ambersbooks's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse and Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Death of parent
andreamanuel13's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Moderate: Domestic abuse and Suicidal thoughts
kerrygetsliterary's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Physical abuse, Infidelity, Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Grief, Misogyny, and Sexism
Moderate: Homophobia
ittywitty's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
A poignant follow up to “A Woman Is No Man,” this book follows Yara in her journey to reconciling intergenerational trauma and expectations in Palestinian-American culture as a mother, daughter and wife. At times heartbreaking, but reads mostly as a tender & hopeful coming-of-age story. I appreciated the anecdotes from Yara’s journal that give context to her past and weaved into the limiting beliefs of the present day. Compared to AWINM, I would say that this is deserving of 4.5 out of 5 🌟.
Moderate: Domestic abuse
Minor: Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Death of parent, and Suicidal thoughts
jj_tj's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Mental illness, Domestic abuse, Racism, and Misogyny
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Infidelity and Death of parent