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katrinarose's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Death, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism, Transphobia, Violence, Blood, Kidnapping, Grief, Car accident, Murder, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Alcoholism, Cancer, Cursing, Deadnaming, Emotional abuse, Sexism, Xenophobia, Medical content, Death of parent, and Fire/Fire injury
Minor: Domestic abuse, Lesbophobia, and Outing
books_in_badgerland's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Not only is this book entertaining, it’s important. Two fathers from different backgrounds share a journey starting with disapproval and moving into acceptance, guilt, and regret. The story is powerful. It’s violent, graphic, and sad but also beautiful in a way. (4⭐️)
Graphic: Violence and Murder
Moderate: Homophobia and Alcohol
anastasia_raf's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
I also think that people give Buddy Lee too much gredit when he rarely stops himself from being an asshole.
Ike, I think you need to start appreciating your wife more.
There was one of many sentences that rubbed me the wrong way... But this one? Not a fan. ''Buddy Lee leaned against the sink. His chest was as tight as virgin pussy." Huh.
I want to believe that this book is supposed to be a punch in toxic masculinity's throat since all this happened because Cis-het (especially white,) man are insecure in their own sexuality and very existence,
BUT, I felt like queer people were just there to serve the plot. I felt their presence was "over-exploited." I get how and why they were important to the plot but they were also used as an excuse for "character growth." This book goes out of its way to show how these fathers were educated on these topics by their gay sons and queer people in general and yet does nothing to educate its audience and to lift up queer voices. Another perspective on the plot is that these two homophobic fathers used revenge as a way of absolving themselves of the guilt (about the awful treatment towards their sons and their ignorant ass towards queerness.) And yet, was it intentional? Or just...there? I think that's where the book lacked in a way. It's not clear on where it stands.
"Still, some of Cosby's other choices render this novel something short of a triumph. Queer people are central to the investigation and the story, but not a one has a particularly strong, fully realized voice of their own..." "Cosby also has straight people talking about LGBTQIA+ marginalization in conversations that sometimes sound preachy rather than organic. It's a jarring juxtaposition — having straight characters gain this growing awareness of and sensitivity to discrimination when the queer characters are marginalized in the narrative." By Carole V. Bell, a cultural critic and communication scholar focusing on media, politics and identity.
Graphic: Alcoholism, Body horror, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Gore, Gun violence, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Terminal illness, Torture, Transphobia, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Car accident, Murder, Abandonment, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Body shaming, Fatphobia, Sexism, Car accident, Death of parent, and Lesbophobia
leosthetics's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Cursing, Death, Gore, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Racism, Violence, Blood, Grief, Murder, Fire/Fire injury, and Alcohol
bookworm247's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Alcoholism, Cancer, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Blood, Murder, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
kennedybullen's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Body horror, Death, Gore, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Racism, Violence, Grief, Murder, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Kidnapping, Alcohol, and Classism
Minor: Cancer, Blood, and Car accident
faerietale_princess's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Also, I learned quite a few words! Loved the choice of language and prose the author used.
Graphic: Death, Gun violence, Hate crime, Violence, and Blood
Moderate: Hate crime, Toxic relationship, and Alcohol
Minor: Deadnaming, Transphobia, Car accident, and Injury/Injury detail
kawooreads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Child death, Cursing, Death, Gore, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Violence, Blood, Medical trauma, Murder, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Infidelity, Racism, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Kidnapping, Grief, Toxic friendship, and Alcohol
pollyhall's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
The story could have been shorter and some characters felt unnecessary to move the story along.
Graphic: Alcoholism, Bullying, Cancer, Confinement, Death, Gore, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Racism, Torture, Transphobia, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Medical trauma, Car accident, Murder, Lesbophobia, Abandonment, Alcohol, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism
narbine's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Body horror, Cursing, Death, Gore, Gun violence, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Racism, Violence, Blood, Excrement, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Murder, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Alcoholism and Death of parent
Minor: Deadnaming, Hate crime, Infidelity, Terminal illness, Xenophobia, and Outing