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Peter Pan by J.M. Barrie

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Loveable characters: Complicated

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TL;DR:
Peter Pan was more emotionally complex, darker, and more violent than I expected for a children’s book. The whimsical writing and deeper themes about childhood, loss of innocence, and maternal love were compelling—but the racist, stereotypical portrayal of Indigenous people was deeply offensive. I’m glad I read it for context, but I wouldn’t revisit it.~

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As someone who grew up with Disney’s Peter Pan, I was curious to finally read J.M. Barrie’s original novel and see how it held up—and how it compared to the adaptation that shaped so many childhood memories. I expected something whimsical and light, but what I found was more layered, more melancholic, and, in some ways, more troubling than I anticipated.

*THEMES*
At its heart, Peter Pan is a story about childhood, but not in the carefree, playful sense we often associate with the word. It’s more about the desperate clinging to youth—how frightening growing up can be, and how comforting it is to be taken care of. The theme of motherhood runs throughout the book, presented as both a source of safety and a site of emotional trauma. Peter himself is emotionally wounded by his belief that his own mother closed the window on him and forgot him when he flew away. It’s a surprisingly painful undercurrent for a children’s classic.

*WRITING STYLE*
The narration was another surprise: it’s playful and self-aware in a way that feels unusually modern. Barrie writes with a kind of wink to the reader, reminding us that we’re hearing a story and that he’s the one shaping it. The tone is whimsical and stylized, with lines that stood out for their cleverness and symbolic weight—like the quote about Captain Hook:
“He was never more sinister than when he was most polite.”
That line alone captures so much of the book’s dual nature: the way childlike fantasy is blended with real danger and darkness.

*ADAPTATION COMPARISON*
The Disney film, interestingly enough, stays fairly close to the book in spirit and character. Peter is still cocky and bratty, Hook is theatrical and menacing, and Wendy plays the nurturing, grown-up child among the Lost Boys. The adaptation rearranges and condenses the plot, but the core personalities are remarkably consistent. What Disney tones down, though, is the violence. In Peter Pan, the play-fighting of Neverland has consequences—people die. That darkness, while not graphic, caught me off guard. I didn't expect quite so much death.

*SETTING*
As for the setting, both London and Neverland are vividly drawn. London feels cozy and nostalgic, while Neverland is magical and dreamlike, full of the kind of make-believe that only children can fully immerse themselves in. It works beautifully with the themes of imagination, freedom, and escape.

🚫⚠️But then there’s the part that didn’t work—and honestly, shouldn’t have even then: the depiction of Indigenous people. The use of the term “Redskins,” the cultural stereotypes, the appropriation of Native customs by the white characters—these aspects are offensive and unacceptable. They age very poorly, and it’s hard to justify or excuse them, even in historical context. That part of the book was uncomfortable to read and significantly detracts from its legacy.

*FINAL THOUGHTS*
It’s not a book I’d re-read, but I’m glad I finally experienced it. It’s whimsical and clever, but also darker and more emotionally complex than I expected. While some parts still sparkle with imagination, others feel painful and outdated. I appreciate it for its historical value and what it has to say about childhood—but I won’t pretend it doesn’t come with caveats.

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"...and thus it will go on, so long as children are gay and innocent and heartless."

This is no lighthearted, fun book for children. 

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Let me first say that this is definitely between two and three stars for me, but as I truthfully didn't get that much enjoyment out of it, I think I'm going with two.

Peter Pan is one of those stories that is so deeply embedded in popular culture that it's difficult to come to the original text without any preconceptions or expectations. I've never been a huge Pan fan in any respect, but I would say that I generally knew what to expect in terms of story and plot but otherwise had no strong emotions or feelings tied to this story.

This definitely turned out to be a good thing, as, regardless, I was pretty disappointed.

Unfortunately, this is just one of those classics that has not aged very well: racism and sexism certainly abound here, as does a surprising and rather distasteful amount of Freudism. I had absolutely no sympathy for Peter as a character and much prefer the glittery Disney version to the much darker undertones that reign here.

In terms of plot, there was a lot less true adventure than I was expecting. Most of the time in Neverland is spent in the Lost Boys' den describing Wendy's domestic playacting. The climax felt anti-climactic and the ending was unnecessarily sad.

Unfortunately, there was just not much here to redeem the problematic aspects for me. I think I now have to put my feelings for Pan in the same basket that I have for Alice in Wonderland — both I find to be borderline creepy, and it just baffles me how both have become so deeply ingrained in the popular imagination.

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Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I've seen the Disney movie, I've seen two different productions of the musical, I've watched Peter Pan Goes Wrong, and I've watched/read other movies and books that retold the story, yet until now, I'd never actually read the source material. I have to admit, I've liked many of the other versions/adaptions better. 

I feel as though a book like this needs no recap, so I'll go right into it.
 
I never expected the pacing to be so fast even though it's a children's book. Maybe being familiar with the plot is part of the reason, but I felt like whenever I blinked I was on a new scene. A lot of the material hasn't aged well, either, which being a classic comes to little surprise yet never fails to catch me off guard. Still, I adore the premise and always have, so I'm glad to have finally read the original novel. 

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adventurous lighthearted fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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