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robinskye28's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts and Eating disorder
Moderate: Fire/Fire injury
Minor: Self harm, Ableism, Homophobia, and Misogyny
Content warning list can be found here: https://aliceoseman.com/extras/content-warnings/pastelkerstin's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Alcohol, Cursing, Eating disorder, Fire/Fire injury, Mental illness, and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Ableism, Stalking, Homophobia, Toxic friendship, Injury/Injury detail, Violence, and Self harm
vaniavela's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.0
I think this is one of those books that you either love or despise. I will try to cover both perspectives. First, the fact that it is promoted with the tagline "this is not a love story" strikes me as somewhat ironic since there is indeed a love story. Honestly, the love story was almost one of my favorite parts.
Another aspect is that Charlie was really having a terrible time. There were too many signs, there was a suicide attempt, and there's really no mention of what happens next. There is a small mention of going to the hospital, but other than that I would have liked to see some real support from his parents. I would have liked to see him recovering at least a little.
On the other hand, Tori's development was very minimal. I have depression, and I understand how hard it is, and I also understand that it's different for everyone. There are times when I really feel so annoyed out of nowhere and explode at others without meaning to. To some extent it was realistic, but I would have liked to have seen her slowly come out of it, or even slowly accept herself for who she is. I would have felt capable of being able to do the same. I understand that she's supposed to be dealing with her mental health, but some of her comments were uncomfortable to read since they were never addressed.
Mind you, gosh, reading a protagonist who hates to read was very conflicting for me. I love to read. Its literally one of the reasons I'm still alive. Constantly reading how Tori hates books and finds them horrible hurt me.
Despite all of this, I know Alice Oseman has gotten better at dealing with these issues. Even that, it's a good book for being her first and written at such a young age.
TW: References to suicide and suicide attempts, Suicidal ideation, Self-harm, Depression, Eating disorders, Obsessive-compulsive behaviours, Narrator has implied undiagnosed depression, Brief incidents of homophobia, Unchallenged misogyny and ableism.
Graphic: Suicide attempt, Eating disorder, Self harm, and Panic attacks/disorders
Minor: Fire/Fire injury, Homophobia, and Ableism
charliebell's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Moderate: Physical abuse, Fire/Fire injury, and Homophobia
Minor: Vomit, Self harm, Eating disorder, Suicide attempt, and Ableism
sensitive_queer's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Moderate: Eating disorder, Suicidal thoughts, and Self harm
Minor: Suicide attempt, Ableism, Blood, Medical content, and Injury/Injury detail
crunchycrystals's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, and Ableism
Moderate: Blood, Self harm, and Homophobia
bookishyvonne's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
⚠️ [CN: Ableismus, Depression, Essstörung, HP Referenz (S. 12-14, 104-105, 143, 179, 205, 253), Mordgedanken, Saneismus, Selbstverletzung, Sexismus, Suizid “Witz”, Suizidalität, Zwangsstörung]
Die 16-jährige Tori hasst alle, außer ihren kleinen Bruder Charlie, ist pessimistisch und sie verkörpert regelrecht Weltschmerz. Vieles konnte ich nachempfinden, aber ihren Sarkasmus teile ich einfach nicht und irgendwann fand ich dieses "Das ist lustig, weil es wahr ist." ehrlich gesagt nur noch nervig. Michael hingegen ist quasi das komplette Gegenteil von Tori. Aufgeschlossen, optimistisch und sprudelt nur so vor Energie. Die beiden miteinander interagieren zu sehen, fand ich total spannend, eben, weil sie so unterschiedlich sind.
Die Story mit der anonymen Schülergruppe Solitaire und wer dahinter steckt, fand ich ziemlich interessant und auch die Charaktere mochte ich sehr gerne. Genauso der Schreibstil, wodurch diese melancholische Atmosphäre im Buch durchgehend aufrechterhält. Jetzt kommt das aber: Irgendwie war so das letzte Drittel für mich sehr… verwirrend? Alles ging drunter und drüber. Was mich besonders gestört hat, war wie mit Charlie umgegangen wurde. Charlie hat versucht sich zu suizidieren, verletzt sich selbst und hat eine Essstörung. Wieso wird nicht einmal Therapie erwähnt? Oder der Gedanke an Therapie? Das Gleiche gilt für Tori. Sie hat Charlie gefunden, nach dem Suizidversuch und hat sicherlich auch eine Therapie nötig. Vor allem, weil sie teilweise wirklich gewalttätige Fantasien hat, die für mich auch etwas zu detailliert beschrieben wurden.
Würde ich das Buch empfehlen? Keine Ahnung. Ich fand’s okay
Graphic: Violence
Moderate: Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Suicide attempt
Minor: Ableism, Blood, and Eating disorder
forcedtoland's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Mental illness and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Eating disorder, Self harm, and Suicide attempt
Minor: Ableism and Homophobia
oliverthegame's review
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Self harm
Minor: Ableism