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ron1's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Religious bigotry, and Physical abuse
Moderate: Sexism, Fire/Fire injury, Misogyny, and Car accident
Minor: Panic attacks/disorders and Racial slurs
carijacqueline's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Misogyny, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Violence, Toxic relationship, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Sexism, and Panic attacks/disorders
crybabybea's review against another edition
4.5
Educated does center around abusive familial relationships and neglect, but I appreciated at the attention paid to the emotional experience as a child living in that environment rather than just retelling events. I felt like we really got inside Tara's head both as a child and as an adult, and I think it takes a great writer to pull that off in an interesting way.
Anyone who has survived abuse and/or neglect will relate heavily to Tara's story, even if you haven't experienced the specific flavor of religious fanaticism and doomsday preparation she experienced. I especially liked the inclusion of Tara's many, many experiences gaslighting herself and justifying the behavior of those around her. I found it to be an incredibly relatable and realistic portrayal of the complicated and confusing nature of abusive relationships, especially when those relationships are familial.
I do think this book is a bit mis-marketed sometimes, and a lot of reviewers put emphasis on the survival aspect of the book which I think is the tamest and least important part of all. It actually put me off on picking this book up for so long because I wasn't interested in reading a memoir that centered around doomsday prepping and wilderness survival. Instead, I think the thread that ties the memoir together is the importance of education, and how Tara's own education (in all its good, bad, and ugly forms) shaped her into the person she is today.
I was a bit disappointed that the audiobook wasn't read by the author, but I saw it won an Audie award so I stayed tuned; I didn't particularly like how it made the book come across as disconnected and way less emotional than it should have been. Though I think the narrator herself did a great job and I appreciated the way she used different voices to keep track of the many important people in Tara's story.
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Medical trauma, Violence, Emotional abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Torture, Blood, Car accident, Domestic abuse, Sexism, Gaslighting, Religious bigotry, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Child abuse, Medical content, Mental illness, Physical abuse, and Racial slurs
Moderate: Pregnancy, Racism, Cancer, and Child death
On top of experiencing mental and emotional abuse from her parents, Tara experienced extreme physical and mental abuse from her older brother and retells events in great detail. She also experienced collective gaslighting and emotional abuse from her parents and siblings when she decided to speak up. Tara's father and brother exhibit mental health symptoms such as paranoia, delusions of grandeur, fits of rage, and gaslighting. Tara and her mother worked as midwives so there are multiple passages that include mildly graphic scenes of delivery and one moderately graphic anecdote about a stillborn delivery. There are multiple incidents that result in injury due to lack of safety measures. Including multiple car crashes and accidents while working on the scrapyard, as well as severe burns.itsgnat's review against another edition
2.0
Graphic: Medical trauma, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Bullying, Injury/Injury detail, Religious bigotry, Fire/Fire injury, Blood, Panic attacks/disorders, Racial slurs, Medical content, Mental illness, Sexism, Car accident, and Physical abuse
Moderate: Animal cruelty and Pregnancy
growfromit's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Death, Gaslighting, Injury/Injury detail, Animal death, Car accident, Emotional abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Child abuse, Physical abuse, Pregnancy, and Religious bigotry
sierra_n's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Racial slurs, Physical abuse, Religious bigotry, Death, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Cursing, Child abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Gaslighting, Panic attacks/disorders, Mental illness, Car accident, Animal death, Animal cruelty, and Adult/minor relationship
kkpines's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Fire/Fire injury, Medical trauma, Xenophobia, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Gaslighting, Injury/Injury detail, Grief, Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, Medical content, Racial slurs, Religious bigotry, Panic attacks/disorders, Gore, and Violence
Moderate: Animal death and Animal cruelty
Minor: Domestic abuse and Cultural appropriation
sec892's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Physical abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Misogyny, Racism, Animal cruelty, Mental illness, Racial slurs, Child abuse, Medical trauma, Injury/Injury detail, Gaslighting, Fire/Fire injury, Emotional abuse, Death, Car accident, Animal death, and Toxic relationship
theshanana's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Panic attacks/disorders, Pregnancy, Child abuse, Gaslighting, Emotional abuse, Bullying, Car accident, Racial slurs, Xenophobia, Medical content, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Abandonment, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Religious bigotry, Misogyny, and Racism
Moderate: Sexual harassment, Terminal illness, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Toxic relationship, and Violence
Minor: Cancer, Dementia, Death, and Death of parent
pandemonicbaby's review against another edition
5.0
This book is such a marvelous, deeply interesting exploration of the power of education, of the meaning of family, of struggling with abuse and still being able to forge an identity for yourself afterward. Her path towards education is also a path towards being able to think for herself, instead of being told what to think by others. This might be the strongest, most powerful message woven in between the threads of this memoir, an ode to finding yourself through education.
So much nuance, so many tiny little intricacies present in the text show that Tara Westover truly is a historian -- that she's able to see the many different versions of a story and present them to the reader, making them reflect upon the significance and meaning of each unique account. "[...] nothing final can be known", as she quotes John Stuart Mill.
I feel like I'm going to reread this soon, just so I can underline the passages in this book that are so powerful they would make anyone stop reading just to reflect upon them. I shouldn't have been scared of underlining this book, gosh!! I gotta start being more willing to do that, whenever I think it might be important to me.
All in all, wonderful book. Marvelously crafted, beautiful writing, moving and powerful message. I cried reading this. I think it will stay with me forever.
Graphic: Gaslighting, Sexual assault, Injury/Injury detail, Car accident, Sexism, Violence, Fire/Fire injury, Domestic abuse, Gore, Physical abuse, Misogyny, Religious bigotry, Blood, Child abuse, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Animal death, Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Toxic relationship, Terminal illness, Murder, Body shaming, Pregnancy, Racial slurs, Animal cruelty, Chronic illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Medical content, and Grief
Minor: Vomit, Racism, Miscarriage, Mass/school shootings, and Genocide