4.28 AVERAGE

adventurous emotional hopeful inspiring lighthearted medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I did not want this book to end. This has become a comfort read for me and one of my top reads of this year. I had so much fun from the very beginning and on each page. The journey the author took us on with Wren, struggling with his future, loss/grief, his asexuality and his his love life was lighthearted but touched on such important topics from start to finish.

Wren’s narration was SO FUNNY, like actually funny. it felt like an 18 year old was actually taking us through his thought process, it didn’t seem over the top, cringe and every joke landed. The message about figuring out what you want and what you need, doing things that are scary and finding people that will accept ALL of you was such a touching message throughout the story.

I absolutely LOVED how diverse this book was. It’s very rare to see ace and aromantic being represented in two main characters of the story. I loved Ryan, I saw so much in her in me (black goths that love halloween!!) and I loved Leo too especially. Wren and Leo’s love for one another was cute to see development. Even though it was fast paced, it still seemed believable too.

I wish this book could’ve gone on forever. I could stay here and ramble about everything I loved about it, how diverse it was etc but I don’t wanna be writing an essay of a review. I just wish certain things were fleshed out more (like Wren’s relationship with his dad) and maybe the ending just a tad bit longer too, but other than that I absolutely enjoyed very everything about this book. Even if YA isn’t your thing, I think this book will make everyone laugh and feel good. (Also that mini plot twist at the end was kinda unexpected ngl)


Thank you Peachtree Teen and NetGalley for the eARC in exchange for an honest review.

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this is the only book i’ve ever read with the miscommunication trope that didn’t make me want to throw it at a wall. 

the main character is somehow both unlikeable and completely lovable and one of the best narrators ever. 
emotional funny hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I didn't like this at all at first. I thought the voice (either the writing style or the audiobook narrator) sounded like an evil cartoon villain with a deep down buried heart of gold. but it totally grew on me and there was some clever writing that made me smile a bunch of times.

i fear i AM wren. there were moments where i was like DUDE HOW CAN YOU NOT PUT TWO AND TWO TOGETHER and then remembered that ive done the exact same thing, on even more obvious situations sooooo i cant be the one to talk.
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional funny informative lighthearted reflective tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

This is just, like, stupidly adorable for 99% of the book, and the other 1% is heart-wrenching in a really good way, and I loved every bit of it so much more than I expected. This is a trope I've loved since I was a kid watching You've Got Mail, and it just never gets old. I can't say Amanda Dewitt added much of a new spin on it - she didn't - but she didn't need to. Wren and Leo slowly circling each other on their way to that final crash is everything a rom-com lover like me could hope for. And there were some quality laugh out loud moments along the way, because Wren has a hell of a personality.

I think my only quibble is that we don't really get much of a feel for the side characters, even Wren's best friend. Partly this is because the POV is very locked on Wren's first person perspective. But I think a little more page time could have been given to them, just a smidge.

Overall though, this was an easy, quick read, insanely adorable, a ton of fun, and exactly what my heart (torn to mutilated threads after my last read) needed today. <3
funny lighthearted fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes