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3.75

Maud Newton does a great job of discerning and interpolating her family history while not spending too long on any one topic.

The last 50 or so pages take a bit of a left turn as she explores and eventually accepts the heritage equivalent of healing crystals, but otherwise a good read.

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4.0

I’m glad I read this book. Using her own family’s history and her experience researching that history, Maud Newton explores what it means to be descended from other human beings. She goes into detail about how things work like genealogy and DNA testing and the ethical concerns that come with it. 

She grapples with being a white person on colonized land and descending from people who actively contributed to colonization and genocide and enslaved other people- I wish that the book had dedicated more time to talking about how to live with that truth and reparations but it also talked about those topics more than I feared it would when I started. 

Lastly, she goes into the spiritual side of looking into our ancestors from a refreshingly balanced perspective of someone with religious Christian trauma, fear of appropriation, and also openness to the unknown. 

I also think this last section could have been a whole book on its own and I would read a sequel if she delved further into either topics (this or the reparations).

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Newton touches on some essential questions: how to understand our relationship to our ancestors in a world where we can test our own DNA and connect it to a growing database, how to reckon with the legacy of white supremacy and the erasure it’s wrought. That said, this might have worked better as a long essay than a book. We’re asked to spend a lot of time tracking the details of the author’s extended family history, and with such a wide-ranging text the payoff gets diluted. Her immediate family story is so striking and sad, to use it as a hook for such a large amount of information (epigenetics, spirituality, ancient history) undercuts the structure of this vital but sprawling meditation.

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knkoch's review

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3.75

This complex, sprawling examination of the personal and universal act of ancestral exploration is a heavy undertaking. Maud Newton delves into her family genealogy, along with extensive research from diverse perspectives including neuroscience, Christianity, history, spirituality, and non-Western approaches to ancestral reverence. She fully acknowledges the darkness inherent in a white Southern woman’s genealogical research, and does not shy away from the connections she uncovers to racism, slavery, and dispossession of Native lands. That was what initially drew me to her book; I was interested in her reckoning with dark family history. Genealogy is usually presented as a fun or interesting personal history project, and I like that Newton does not duck away from painful findings.

I found this book a little unwieldy because it was so broad. It was harder to get through than I expected. I found the examination of DNA collection/genealogy site practices (23andMe, Ancestry.com) and personal family stories she uncovers most interesting. The neuroscience review was least interesting to me, and most of what I took from the chapters on epigenetics and intergenerational genetic influence was that the research into what exactly we inherit from our forebears is really mixed and rather inconclusive. But that could be due to inattentiveness on my part!

Overall, I did find myself significantly more interested in my own ancestral history, and the ways some traits, features, and habits replicate inevitably (if more anecdotally than statistically, at this point in the research we have) through many generations.

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This book is an outstanding mixture of memoir and research. Coming from a family who has roots in both the South and New England (and also Miami, though my parents are not the same generation Newton is), parts of this felt familiar to me. Both sides of my family also have an appreciation for family history, though in recent memory, we do not have full-on dedicated genealogists. There are the oft-repeated stories, and lots of people in my ancestry liked to travel around, and I think some of that comes from an urge to see what's out there. So even though I don't know the names/dates of everyone off the top of my head, I definitely understand the urge to sift through one's past looking for insight about the present.

I also appreciated Newton's willingness to confront both her own family's racism and relate it to broader histories of how the U.S. came to be. She also contemplates how she might begin to make amends for her ancestor's behavior. I don't know that a lot of other people, particularly those doing it from a more, let's say, church-affiliated perspective, are willing to do that hard work. White people, in general, are good at what Newton identifies as willful naiveté about our history, both personal and cultural. I hope that this book leads to a lot of good discussion and thoughtful change in how we handle our histories, that we can't ignore the more troublesome things in exchange for some charming anecdotes. Genetics and upbringing are complicated subjects for anyone, but by seeing a throughline, we can better understand ourselves, and we can aim toward some form of peace.

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