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Best of Friends by Kamila Shamsie

4 reviews

brookepetit's review against another edition

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lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

Call me basic, the ending bummed me out.

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amyvl93's review against another edition

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challenging reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

This had a really strong start that was slightly dampened by an unconvincing time jump.

Best of Friends opens following Maryam and Zahra, two close friends entering their final years at secondary school. Maryam is drawing men's attention for the first time, and comes from a wealthy family who run a leather company - overseen by an iron-fisted patriarch who sees Maryam as his preferred successor. Zahra is more retiring, makes less of a splash, and whose parents are a teacher and a much-loved cricket commentator. As time passes, their youth coincides with the end of the Pakistani dictatorship, ushering in a world of potential opportunities.

Shamsie does a great job of capturing all the intricacies of teenage female friendship, and of teenagehood in general - where you question how much your parents can really know, and where the world feels so big and so small all at once. The central event in this novel is well crafted at reminder Maryam and Zahra, and the reader - of the realities of being a woman in a patriarchal society - where power may rest with a woman in government, but that may not make much change to women on the ground.

The time jump to contemporary London is less successful. We find Maryam as a tech venture capitalist (there's a fairly heavy handed signpost to this when she mentions programming earlier in the novel) desperate to convince the government not to introduce privacy legislation, and Zahra as running a civil liberties organisation (think Liberty) who views the government as inhumane.

Shamsie introduces a host of other issues into the novel at this point - the asylum process, ethical technology, how we protect young people online and off, surveillance culture, as well as more obvious links to the early part of the novel around female sexuality and the diaspora experience. I found this muddied the waters somewhat, and made the ultimate ending of the novel to fall quite flat. It seemed strange that a formative event could have taken place in the girls' youth, which they never chose to discuss until the 'now' of the second half.


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kirstym25's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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saestrah's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

A free advanced reading copy of this title was provided by NetGalley in exchange for an honest review:

Best of Friends was a relatively easy to read book that I enjoyed from the start, and invites the reader into the world of Zahra and Maryam in Pakistan in the 1980s. Shamsie's writing draws the reader into their lives in an accessible way, and I picked up on each character's motivations quickly without feeling like I was force-fed; it felt much more fluid. The first part of the novel is set when Zahra and Maryam are teenage girls experiencing a taste of adulthood against a backdrop of political unrest, coming to a climax during the events of a party where Zahra and Maryam's decisions effect the rest of their futures. The second part of the novel is set 30 years later when Zahra and Maryam are both living in the UK, and despite the test of time and distance, are still best friends.
What I loved most about the novel is the strongest theme running through the text: that friendship can withstand the test of time and distance, and that a friendship can be the most important relationship in one's life, more than family, more than romantic love. Another aspect of this book that I loved was how fleshed out Zahra and Maryam were as characters. Though their narration styles were very similar and meant I often lost track of which character I was following, as characters they felt very real. Because we are given both characters' perspectives throughout the novel, it's easy to understand where both are coming from, even when they stand on opposite sides of a political or personal issue. This is a book about personal loyalties and values, especially when it comes to relating to other people with upbringings different from our own. I don't think I would reread it, but I'm definitely glad for it to have taken up space on my (digital) bookshelf.

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