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My Body

Emily Ratajkowski

4.02 AVERAGE

emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

maryheyd's review

3.25
reflective medium-paced
emotional reflective slow-paced

emily_holden's review

3.25
emotional reflective fast-paced

sarahmreadsss's review

3.0
emotional reflective fast-paced
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tweader's review

3.75
challenging dark informative sad tense slow-paced

Ratajkowski presents really difficult parts of her life in this collection of essays to speak about her bodily autonomy, her power and powerlessness in being a woman and commodity, and her beauty that enabled her to have these experiences and opportunities.

I’m not a huge fan of the non-linear storytelling, but I will say that it was an excellent narrative choice for her memoir. The slow buildup of all the awful predatory and manipulative situations Ratajkowski lived through from such a young age, made me livid and sad for her. In her personal life to her career in modeling and entertainment, she and many other girls, were so young and vulnerable. I was sick to my stomach learning about the sexual violence and female objectification she endured and continues to battle. Especially knowing that her ex-husband participated in this predatory sexual behavior makes me feel even worse for her.

I believe the ending is supposed to be empowering and hopeful through anecdotes of her therapy and pregnancy, but I finished feeling quite powerless and frustrated by the sexism and state of the world that enabled this kind of behavior. I understand these essays are more of a reflection of her experiences, so as such I felt an incompleteness in the work. I was hoping for more answers and conclusion in her thoughts. I wish there were more time in her memoir spent reflecting on her relationship with her mother and/or father. I would have also been interested in how motherhood has affected her opinions and experiences.

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allisonwhite's review

4.0

Emily Ratajkowski is an incredible writer. These essays, which center around the commodification of her body over the course of her career, are honest and powerful.
emotional reflective medium-paced
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hannah_mcconnell's review

5.0
challenging emotional reflective fast-paced