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Olive by Emma Gannon

3 reviews

dixiecarroll's review against another edition

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emotional medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.75

the writing is atrocious and the characters are not fleshed out - they all read very one note and the only topic these women think of is children (pro and anti). Parts of it really resonated with me, but not in the way the author intended lol
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idekfeebs's review against another edition

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Felt really disappointed with the execution of the story possibility. When I first picked up the book and saw it was about a young lady who was choosing not to have children I was so pleased to see some representation of someone who shared the same opinions as me but this could t be further from the truth. 

I share no resemblance to the main character Olive like I first thought. It seems she is annoyed at her friends for choosing to have children because she doesn't want them herself. 
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becca_thegrimreader's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.0

 This is a book that I think will resonate with many people. I don’t think I’ve read a book that delves into being childfree quite like this, and I think it is an incredibly important topic that is discussed. 

We meet Olive who doesn’t want children. She has recently come out of a relationship with her long-term partner due to her decision. Her three best friends each have children or want children. Throughout the book, her decision to not have children is faced with judgment and the response of “you’ll change your mind.” I think her journey through this book and learning to be confident with her decision is incredibly powerful. I think the section of the book that stands out for me was when she met like-minded people and got to hear their stories of being childfree. In that meeting, I think many peoples’ voices will be heard here and I hope that some readers will find solace here. 

Olive’s friends also have their own issues. Not only does this book delve into being childfree, it also examines motherhood and the path to motherhood. Isla, one of Olive’s best friends, has endometriosis and is struggling with IVF treatment. Her pain and heartbreak during her journey are raw and visceral throughout the book. With Olive’s other friends we see that they too have issues in their lives which Olive doesn’t necessarily take much notice of. 

I have a lot of praise to give to this book for the message it sends. However, there are a few things that irritated me when I was reading it. I do not believe that Olive and her friends are actually friends. They argue, irritate each other, judge each other, and don’t communicate their feelings or thoughts. I think that these four “friends” will annoy many readers, as I wouldn’t describe them as likeable. Each has their own problems and yet their “friends” are exactly supportive. I think this book is one that will divide opinion and is definitely one you’ll either love or hate. 

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