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sorayazahra's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Racism, Sexual assault, Violence, Murder, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, and Alcohol
folded_between_pages_of_books's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Death, Drug use, Car accident, Murder, and Alcohol
Moderate: Sexual harassment
mamawantsbooks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Death and Car accident
Moderate: Drug use and Alcohol
Minor: Sexual harassment
kimveach's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Death, Car accident, and Alcohol
Moderate: Sexual assault and Sexual content
Minor: Cursing, Drug use, Vomit, and Car accident
bi_rdie's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Medical content, Murder, and Alcohol
Moderate: Sexual content and Car accident
Minor: Blood
sarahsbookss's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Death, Drug use, Vomit, Kidnapping, Car accident, Murder, and Alcohol
miak2's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.75
Trust Ma to take pride in my etiquette when I’ve just shown her my date, whom I’ve killed, in the trunk of my car. p.58
This book was a hoot and a half, an expression I've never used before in my life but feels incredibly appropriate. It was just fun! The plot was absolutely absurd, but hilarious if you approach it the same way you would a movie romcom - with a willingness to suspend your disbelief and just have a good time. Towards the end, the plot got perhaps too unhinged, but it still made for an enjoyable read.
Despite it being labeled as a romance book, that element really came secondary to this absolutely bizarre plot. That said, I actually (for once!) enjoyed the male lead in a contemporary romance. He was a little one-dimensional, but I'll take that any day over the toxic men I've read about in previous romances. Sutanto showed how you can write a fun, non-problematic romance that's definitely original. (Pssht, no this definitely isn't a dig on The Hating Game. Definitely not.)
Throughout all the sheer ridiculousness of the book, however, was an undercurrent of strong Indo-Chinese culture. You could see it in the family expectations, in the wedding traditions, in the meals that they ate and the languages they spoke. Meddy's struggle between supporting her family and becoming her own person really shone through. The dynamics between the aunties were both entertaining and, I'm sure, incredibly realistic. Also realistic, unfortunately, were the racist slights that the main characters were occasionally dealt. I absolutely adored these additions to the book, it grounded this incredibly absurd plot in something very real, which made for a special reading experience.
Moderate: Death, Drug use, and Alcohol
Minor: Racism and Sexual assault
kylasmv15's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Graphic: Death, Drug use, Kidnapping, Car accident, Murder, Abandonment, and Alcohol
Moderate: Body horror, Blood, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Gun violence
konstantine's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Graphic: Murder
Moderate: Confinement, Death, Drug use, Kidnapping, and Injury/Injury detail
kejianming's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
i truly loved the family dynamics and laughing at the relatability. it was just really nice reading a story with SEA rep because i understood the language and the familiarity of it all. there’s just so many things i could relate to! the book was definitely plot-heavy, but i do feel like there’s a lot of development on meddy’s part as well as she struggles with adhering to her culture and her family whilst also finding her own footing in the world.
the second part of the book was a bit messy in the sense that so many things were happening at once! especially towards the end of the wedding. also meddy and nathan seem to have gotten back together pretty quickly despite how their relationship ended abruptly years before. it was refreshing not to have to deal with much relationship drama, but i figured it would have taken nathan some time to actually forgive her. anyways, that’s really my only issue with the book! overall, i really enjoyed it.
Moderate: Drug use and Murder
Minor: Death, Gun violence, Racism, Sexual assault, Car accident, and Alcohol