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My Friends

Fredrik Backman

4.55 AVERAGE

dark emotional funny hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I’m not sure I’m alive still so we’ll see how I feel about this review in the morning. Oh my word.

Recommendation: If you like character-driven literary novels and are feeling in the mood to both laugh and cry. Bonus points if you love art. Check content warnings if you have any big concerns.

What worked for me:
- Everything? A perfect 5 stars
- I had already teared up by 20%, fully cried by 50%, and then just perpetually cried for the last 20%. My shirt is literally wet.
- I laughed out loud so many times my husband has heard multiple random quotes from this
- It’s the kind of book I had to reread sentences multiple times because they’re that good.

What didn’t work for me:
- IDK, nothing? There was honestly a lot of farting but I can’t complain too much about that

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⚠️ Content Warnings ⚠️
Spice level: No sex
Graphic: Child abuse and neglect, domestic violence, foster care trauma, death of a parent, cancer/deadly health issues
Moderate: Self harm, suicide, drug overdose

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⚠️ SPOILER ZONE — skip until you’ve read it ⚠️

I’m so thankful Joar made it—it genuinely surprised me. But I’m not sure I’ll ever get over Ali. A fresh tear just rolled down my cheek.



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emilyreadsitall's review

4.75
emotional funny hopeful reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

baristagirl's review

5.0
adventurous challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

megan_1990's review

3.25
funny hopeful reflective
adventurous emotional hopeful inspiring sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

storeybooks's review

4.0
adventurous dark emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Reads like it was written by a man who discovered feelings and emotions. 

matteucciodaperugia's review

3.75
challenging dark emotional hopeful reflective tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

adriennemcc's review

5.0
emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

eaestes28's review

4.5
emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated