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A difficult read.
For me it felt like a convergence of the things I read over the last 2 years. But I know someone who felt it was biased. So I tried to read the book carrying both our perspectives but I stand by this book, man. It covers what I talk about in therapy, it describes a reality similar to one I feel here in an Eastern society.

It feels a tad woo woo - actually it definitely is especially towards the end but I recommend it even if it feels like unsubstantiated hope for the most disbelieving.
informative reflective medium-paced

I thought there were some good ideas here, and there was a lot I agreed with, but I found the style and pacing to make for a sloggish read. I was unconvinced with a number of his conclusions, and the name dropping became annoying.

I have very mixed feelings about the first section of the book and really had to force myself to finish the rest of it.

Some of it is great.. some of it doesn't seem to follow the thread.

a heavy, but necessary, read. as always, i am truly blown away by gabor maté and his incredible work, and am so grateful for his enlightenment. everyone needs to read this.

thank you.

serafina_a's review

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DID NOT FINISH: 64%

It's really really good and it explains some very advanced concepts in a way I can grasp most of the time. That said this is a very heavy read and I'm not up for that right now. Will pick back up again at a later time though.
informative reflective slow-paced
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