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high_lady_of_the_night_court's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Emotional abuse, and Fatphobia
bodiesinbooks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming and Fatphobia
Moderate: Bullying, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Toxic friendship, and Abandonment
Minor: Alcohol
hannahb1533's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.0
Let me also say I have NEVER watched a season of the Bachelor/Bachelorette franchise. I have a lot of friends who are VERY devoted so via social media I know enough to understand the nuances of how this book was set up. Bea’s initial thoughts on the show are why I have never watched it… this isn’t what real everyday people who have trouble dating look like!
If you aren’t plus sized or mid-sized you may have trouble enjoying the book because Bea’s thoughts may come off as whiny, but being someone with a lot of the same insecurities as Bea I thought “FINALLY a love story that GETS IT”
I thought Bea’s journey with the men was fun and funny, it makes you wonder how much of this type of stuff really happens on these shows behind the scenes.
Also shoutout to the asexual / aromantic representation in the book!
Now… for the one downside (that many people seem to share…
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right from the jump of the book we see Bea sleep with and then get ditched by Ray. This is a running conflict for her throughout the book and Ray is quickly made a villain. Now, yes. Ray was wrong this time and many times before in his treatment of Bea… BUT … Bea girl, you cheated too! You KNEW that man was engaged! I just feel like, aside from Asher peacing out (which wasn’t even permanent) Bea never really had to feel consequences from choosing to sleep with an engaged man. Ray obviously had a lot to work through, but Bea needed to own her part in breaking up an engagement and her wrongdoing as well.
That is really my only point of contention with the book.
Overall this is a fun, funny, and reflective romcom that puts a body positive plus-does woman at the forefront and while I kinda of wish that Bea
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didn’t end of with Asher so that she could continue to be a girl boss and meet someone else a bit more organically I can appreciate the choice to
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have her end up with Ray and get an Insta family. Her interactions with Lucas were TOO CUTE for her to not stay in that life and Bea and Ashers insecurities work together in a way that balance them as a couple.
Graphic: Bullying and Fatphobia
Moderate: Sexual assault
laurenparham's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Fatphobia, Infidelity, Misogyny, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence
nefari_'s review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Fatphobia, and Infidelity
Minor: Rape
sunfishcakes's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Also this book moved me to tears multiple times from both the Drama and some really sweet character arcs. Truly just made me tick in a new way, which I loved.
Graphic: Body shaming and Fatphobia
Moderate: Bullying, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
time4tori2read's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, and Fatphobia
kthrine's review against another edition
3.0
There is *a lot* of fatphobia, both external and internally, in this book. And while some of it rang true, at times it felt like a pile up.
It honestly felt like it could only end one way, but there were enough moments that made me worried and scared at the choices Bea was making.
I thought the point of view of viewers and outside media was really smart but I wish the author had refrained from “tweeting” as celebrities. None of those “tweets” sounded like the celebrities they were meant to be. Chris Evans was fairly entertaining but also desperate sounding. The title of his movie in the book was also very cringy.
Graphic: Bullying and Fatphobia
outsidestar's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
I don’t even know what to say. It was awesome and I loved it. A lot.
The story follows Bea, a plus-size fashion blogger, as she is cast to feature on the reality TV show Main Squeeze (basically The Bachelor/Bachelorette) following a rant on her blog about the lack of diversity and representation on the show that goes viral. Having recently been hurt in love, she is hesitant to meet 25 potential suitors but finally agrees, since it will give a boost to her career and show plus-size women that they too deserve love, even if hers is fake. That is until she catches feelings and everything gets fun and complicated, of course.
The story itself is great, it’s like binge-watching your favorite guilty pleasure reality TV, but the way it’s told adds so much to it. As well as following Bea, we get to see magazine articles, tweets, text messages or blog posts of the audience’s thoughts on the show as the episodes air. This multi-media format made for such a well-rounded story, whoever came up with that idea is a genius.
Also, I adored every single character; from Bea to her step father or Gwen and Linus, but I must say I’m seriously in love with Sam, what do I have to do to go on a Disneyland date with him? Most importantly, I didn’t just adore them, I connected with them and their personal issues, flaws and insecurities, which is the mark of a great story. Also, the representation in this book is chef’s kiss, not only because Bea is plus-size, but there’s queer, asexual, a kid who’s gender nonconforming, etc and it’s all beautifully done.
I loved following Bea on her journey and figuring things out with her. I mean, who has never thought “I’ll put off dating until I lose some weight” or “it’s impossible for someone like him to love someone like me”? A lot of Bea’s insecurities hit home with me and I loved the message of body positivity and self-love that this book gives.
A huge thank you to NetGalley and Two Roads (John Murray Press) for a digital review copy in exchange of an honest and voluntary review.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Fatphobia, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Infidelity and Sexual content
thenovelmaura's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Unfortunately, the romance aspects didn't really work for me (maybe because I'm not a fan of the Bachelor franchise?). But I didn't feel like we had enough time to get to know her suitors and I wasn't rooting for any of them. I also wouldn't recommend the audiobook, since the female did all the voices for the different suitors and it just wasn't very sexy, especially with the bad French accent. I think reality TV fans will love this one; it was just missing that spark for me!
Graphic: Body shaming and Fatphobia
Moderate: Bullying and Infidelity
Minor: Toxic relationship