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siriface's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Bullying, Infidelity, Violence, and Miscarriage
vif's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Xenophobia, Addiction, Violence, Homophobia, Alcoholism, and Alcohol
Moderate: Miscarriage, Sexual content, Grief, and Death of parent
ellenb3's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Death of parent, Bullying, Racial slurs, Grief, Alcoholism, Homophobia, Hate crime, and Racism
Minor: Rape, Vomit, Miscarriage, and Infertility
buttermellow's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Islamophobia, Xenophobia, and Alcoholism
Moderate: Miscarriage, Misogyny, Homophobia, Emotional abuse, and Classism
Minor: Fatphobia
taleswithtrix's review against another edition
4.0
We don’t see many stories or novels written about Asian Americans in the LGBTQIA community so I really loved that Neel Patel shined a light here. We get all of the Indian-esc perspective living in a predominantly white community in Illinois, plus the LGBT+ perspective within a non-white community.
It had me feeling all sorts of ways because of the homophobia and racism that is throughout but also from the other side. As a white American married to an Indian man, I really enjoyed Jessica (Akash’s white Sister In Law) and Renu’s relationship; the struggle to not feel judged or misunderstood when two culture and races have different expectations, etc. was very relatable for me. Many things Renu felt about white women rubbed me the wrong way. And I also hated how the book club treated Renu. I think had they lived in a more diverse American community things would’ve been different; I’d be interested to see how he would write it differently set somewhere like Boston or DC.
Akash and Renu’s struggles, feelings, experiences were very raw. While I hated Bijal (Akash’s brother) most of the book, I loved how the family grew and came into their own personally as individuals and as a family.
I also loved all the 90s music references and vibes!
This one is definitely worth a read!
Graphic: Bullying, Alcoholism, and Homophobia
Moderate: Miscarriage
Minor: Racism
leah_alexandra's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Sexual content, Homophobia, Bullying, Alcoholism, and Xenophobia
Moderate: Miscarriage and Death of parent
Minor: Islamophobia
nini23's review against another edition
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
My favourite part of the novel has to be Renu's scathing take-down of her white bookclub. Renu and her best friend Chaya together are a hoot. However, I wish that miscarriage wouldn't be used as lazy shorthand writing stand-in for female emotional trauma. Furthermore, miscarriages are common (a third of pregnancies) but most of Patel's main female characters seem to suffer from repeated ones at which point this would necessitate further medical investigation. Also, I don't buy the perfect Gary Stu nature of Renu's husband Ashok, overall the whole Kareem-Renu-Ashok relationship conundrum and resolution left me nonplussed - sincerely hope it's not a patriarchal finger wagging at married women to be satisfied with who they have and stay within their boundaries.
Graphic: Bullying
Moderate: Alcoholism and Homophobia
Minor: Miscarriage