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The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
Suzanne Stabile, Ian Morgan Cron
4.2 AVERAGE
998 reviews for:
The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
Suzanne Stabile, Ian Morgan Cron
4.2 AVERAGE
Laugh out loud funny at many points, this very readable book was also so insightful into the different enneagram personality types. I loved getting to know the ins and outs of each type, specifically the numbers that related to 'me and mine'. The authors do a great job presenting the downfalls in each type without shame or malice. All types are seen as valuable and able to be healthy and whole. There was a particular bit at the end that I will highlight and return to again and again.
"So when you are temped to prosecute yourself for the flaws in your own character, remember that each type is at its core a signpost pointing us to travel toward and embrace an aspect of God's character that we need. Ones show us God's perfection and his desire to restore the world to its original goodness, while Twos witness to God's unstoppable, selfless giving. Threes remind us about God's glory, and Fours about the creativity and pathos of God. Fives show God's omniscience, Sixes God's steadfast love and loyalty, and Sevens God's childlike joy and delight in creation. Eight mirror God's power and intensity, while Nines reflect God's love of peace and desire for union with His children."
I started this book, falsely believing that my personal type wasn't as valuable as others. After finishing, I believe we were each created beautifully different; no type more valuable than another. All with different strengths and weaknesses. I recommend this book for every person looking to know themselves and the people around them a little better, that they might have more grace, compassion and love for each.
"So when you are temped to prosecute yourself for the flaws in your own character, remember that each type is at its core a signpost pointing us to travel toward and embrace an aspect of God's character that we need. Ones show us God's perfection and his desire to restore the world to its original goodness, while Twos witness to God's unstoppable, selfless giving. Threes remind us about God's glory, and Fours about the creativity and pathos of God. Fives show God's omniscience, Sixes God's steadfast love and loyalty, and Sevens God's childlike joy and delight in creation. Eight mirror God's power and intensity, while Nines reflect God's love of peace and desire for union with His children."
I started this book, falsely believing that my personal type wasn't as valuable as others. After finishing, I believe we were each created beautifully different; no type more valuable than another. All with different strengths and weaknesses. I recommend this book for every person looking to know themselves and the people around them a little better, that they might have more grace, compassion and love for each.
What is January without a self-help book? My daughter brought this home from college and it looked intriguing to me. I am in a life transition stage so some introspection sounded good.
The author does a nice job of explaining the history and premise of enneagrams. He intersperses examples of people in his life who fit into each of the nine types while explaining each type which helped me imagine behaviors and personality traits. Cron explains each type and all the relevant components and considerations (really, you have to read the book to grasp the way the types are structured). It is a good 'primer' and allows the reader to identify with their type. There is no "quiz" rather you read about each type and see which one you most identify with. Which is probably a more accurate approach.
I did leave the book with more questions. (Hence my 3 stars.) I wanted to learn more about my type, how I could use it to improve myself and learn why I behave the way I do. I did some research online and it is hard to find the next level of learning. I'm not giving up because the approach resonated with me and I am still curious.
The author does a nice job of explaining the history and premise of enneagrams. He intersperses examples of people in his life who fit into each of the nine types while explaining each type which helped me imagine behaviors and personality traits. Cron explains each type and all the relevant components and considerations (really, you have to read the book to grasp the way the types are structured). It is a good 'primer' and allows the reader to identify with their type. There is no "quiz" rather you read about each type and see which one you most identify with. Which is probably a more accurate approach.
I did leave the book with more questions. (Hence my 3 stars.) I wanted to learn more about my type, how I could use it to improve myself and learn why I behave the way I do. I did some research online and it is hard to find the next level of learning. I'm not giving up because the approach resonated with me and I am still curious.
I picked up this book after hearing a lot of people who talk about the Enneagram say that they didn't really know their number until they read this book, and I think that I can say the same. Like any personality test, I found I could relate to different qualities for just about every type, but there was one number that resonated the most. I really like the way that Ian Cron and Suzanne Stabile present the nine different personality types with stories, examples, and recognition that each type represents a spectrum and not a hard-edged box. The authors write that they hope readers develop a greater compassion for others and for themselves, and I think that has been accomplished. I have a better idea of where other people are coming from, how our weaknesses can also be our strengths, and how God made each of us on purpose to reflect his glory in unique ways.
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So I'm just going to put this out there. The Enneagram geeks have really gotten on my nerves the past year or so. Any time I was in a Christian gathering I heard a swirl of numbers being swapped, none of which I understood. It got worse when I was convinced to take a test (I'm a 1) only to be rebutted and told I am a 5. It was worse still when I took the test a second time and was confirmed as a 1. I was told and retold and told again that I am a 5 and I just needed to read a book before I decided for sure. Everyone recommended The Road Back to You by Ian Cron and Suzanne Stabile. I ignored them all. Until a close friend of mine read it. He told me that he was aware how grandiose the claim sounded but insisted that he was of sound mind when he said, "Outside of the Bible, no book has helped me more." So I relented. I had a bias against this Enneagram business going in but I thoroughly enjoyed the book from start to finish. It was entertaining and insightful. In contrast to other personality tests, this one is not pure psychology. It is spiritual and grounded in ancient Christian tradition associated with Spiritual Direction and the Seven Deadly Sins, plus two others added to the list by Pope Gregory. After reading it I am assured that I am a strong 1. I appreciate why so many think I am a 5. I'm flattered even. But I absolutely participate in type 7 when I'm secure and type 4 when I'm stressed (as the 1 does). My motivation is always The Good, I am an intense rule follower, and I carry the incessant inner voice which criticizes my every move. I am a perfectionist through and through. I have difficulty cutting loose and having fun. Further, I "feel my feelings" quite immediately (in contrast to the detachment—perceived or real—of the 5). I could not be a clearer 1. For anyone interested in learning his/herself and how to draw nearer to God as the sort of person s/he is, I highly recommend this work.
"The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile is an excellent introduction to the enneagram.
If, like me, you are a complete novice to the enneagram of personality, this is the right book to start from.
"The Road Back to You" is a quick read, with a clear writing style and plenty of practical anecdotes exemplifying the theory.
It left me wishing for a more in-depth approach to the subject, so I'll definitely look up other books about the enneagram.
If, like me, you are a complete novice to the enneagram of personality, this is the right book to start from.
"The Road Back to You" is a quick read, with a clear writing style and plenty of practical anecdotes exemplifying the theory.
It left me wishing for a more in-depth approach to the subject, so I'll definitely look up other books about the enneagram.
Great first glance at the enneagram! Loved the author’s telling of the trouble with the church seeing other personal development tools that can supplement Bible teachings. I hope more change happens!
A great primer for those interested in discovering how the Enneagram works.
informative
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slow-paced
Incredible book to learn how you are wired and how God made you!