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5.0

HUGE TW: EATING DISORDER !!!!(one whole chapter and a few small mentions about it afterwards)
I absolutely adore this book. this is really good if you want like a “big sister advise book”!! I don’t agree with everything or every “tip” she gives but that’s okay. we can have different views and opinions about stuff. I think this book is very well written and it’s not too complicated to understand.
I did not remember many of the side characters because they aren’t really that important in the book as they mostly appear for a short time. The book features a lot of different people and it can be hard to remember all of them but you really don’t have to. if you want you can make  a small character sheet but I think that it’s only important to know the main characters or the characters that often appear in the book.
 this book is about the author, Dolly Alderton‘s life and I absolutely love the way the book is created with the chapters and the smaller lists/ recipes in between. They create an atmosphere where it’s comfortable,easy and fast for me to read. 
I love it! I would recommend it to everybody but what I would say is: the last few chapters are very angsty because she just has her 30th birthday so she’s kind of freaking out and talking about life moving fast so if that’s something you’re  also scared of and don’t want to be reminded of it, just keep in mind that the last two chapters are going to be about that. The chapters end with a positive message so it’s okay :))

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4.75


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4.5

Absolutely adore this book — it made me laugh out loud. 

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5.0


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5.0


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5.0

everything I know about love was everything I needed right now and more. I’ll be honest, I didn’t expect to love this book that much beforehand. I expected to like it, but reading this book was such a moving experience, I fell head over heel in love. This book felt like a conversation with a close friend about life. Dolly Alderton is humorous, candid, and brilliant.

Alderton’s writing is accessible, witty, and intentionally emotive. She uses tone and language to express the simultaneous beauty and darkness of growing up and being a woman in her 20s. I underlined so many eloquently worded quotes that perfectly describe love, loss, and loneliness.

Alderton’s stories almost always end with a thinly veiled, sometimes entirely naked, messages and advices that the reader probably could’ve deduced for themselves, but it is a characteristic of her experience writing an advice column in The Sunday Times Style.

everything I know about love is a depiction of growing pains. It is an ode to friendship. The book tackles love is various forms, as well as mental health, eating disorders, death, and heartbreak. It had more heaviness in it than I expected, but those were my favourite chapters. I nearly cried on the train while reading ‘Florence’. Alderton holds on punches with her honesty. She bares her heart in these pages. The themes of loss and insecurity added so much dimension to this memoir. It showcases a life lived and the lesson learned from her many different experiences.
I particularly related to her in feeling like we’re falling behind and our friends are outgrowing us (even though they aren’t actually). I loved her recognition of confusing intensity with intimacy. Reading that line took my breath away.


If you’re approaching your 20s, particularly if you live in the UK, this book is an absolutely essential read. It’s a lifeline that I wished I had when I was first entering adulthood. The later chapters are life lessons that I will be taking away with me and revisiting as needed. Because I will need it. There will be times in my life to come when I feel lonely, confused, or overwhelmed and this book will make me feel seen. It already has. I think that’s the many take away of everything I know about love. It is a book that I found comfort in. I can’t wait to read more of Alderton’s work in the near future. 

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2.5


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5.0


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4.5


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3.25

Read this on my period and it had me reflecting on my romantic and platonic relationships hard. Just called my therapist to make an appointment after ghosting her for a full college semester. I took a lot of good from Alderton’s wisdom, many perfect anecdotes for my notes app, but can’t help but feel sad after finishing because it’s a memoir. Real life, not a fantasy and a reminder that life is flawed and not wrapped up all nicely with a bow on top. Go after life. That’s my takeaway.

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