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inkandmuses's review
emotional
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content, Chronic illness, Medical trauma, Medical content, Death, Emotional abuse, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Infertility, and Car accident
Moderate: Alcohol
Minor: Pregnancy
bee_wuud's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I was in tears for the last 1/3 of this book. So much so, that it was hard to actually read.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Death, Infertility, and Grief
Moderate: Pregnancy, Injury/Injury detail, Panic attacks/disorders, Car accident, and Emotional abuse
katieg1015's review
emotional
funny
hopeful
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Death, Pregnancy, Infertility, Emotional abuse, Grief, Car accident, and Chronic illness
jillkaarlela's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.5
Taylor Swift: “peace”!!
Age rating: 16+ (2 short spicy scenes 1/5🌶️)
Please check content warnings!!!
This was a story that really needed to be heard, and I’m glad that Abby Jimenez wrote it. It’s so frustrating that not being able to have kids or not wanting to have kids limits your dating pool so much but it DOES. And the struggle of not wanting to burden your loved ones or potential romantic partners with your health issues is SO REAL. It was very cathartic to see Kristen’s healing journey, as she became more accepting of herself and her worth despite her health issues. I also loved how Jimenez mentioned in the author’s note that this story was heavily inspired by her best friend who struggled with the same issues, making it as true and honest as possible.
This is a sort of FWB to lovers story, but they both secretly want it to be more. It was so sad seeing Kristen pushing Josh away, when he clearly wanted to be with her, but I completely understand why she did. For those who have not struggled personally with chronic health issues themselves, or something of that nature, her choices will probably be frustrating and not make sense, but it is so extremely real and accurate.
I will be honest, at the beginning, Josh seemed like such a tool. There were a few comments that made me really irritated at him, particularly his comments about women being “too much work” right now. But we do see him quickly change/grow into an extremely caring and kind man as he falls for Kristen. He quickly became the embodiment of “if he wanted to, he would”, I mean he was SO DOWN BAD for her, you don’t understand!!
Another thing I didn’t love was that there were so many references to Kristen as being a “cool girl” because she didn’t like many of the other things that girls typically enjoy (flowers, candles, etc.). Which, would be okay, if Josh didn’t act like she was superior over other women because she “wasn’t like other women”, ie. she was blunt and emotionally guarded, etc. It just kind of left a bad taste in my mouth, especially after seeing the Barbie movie, this subtle misogyny is frustrating.
One more thing I didn’t love was how heavily it talked about Kristen tying her worth with how many children she can bear, which is a misogynistic agenda that is literally shoved down women’s throats. I’m not negating that Kristen would feel this way, she definitely is valid in those feelings, and Josh’s constant comments about wanting a baseball team sized family do not help the issue. It’s not as bad as it was in the past decades, but Yeesh, I can’t believe that we still need to be having this conversation in 2023. This is not really a critique on the author, but on society in general. It’s so sad that women STILL have to deal with this misogynistic ideal.
Overall, it was a sweet story that dealt with an extremely important issue that you could tell was done with great care. These characters really and truly loved each other so much. However, it definitely wasn’t my favorite Abby Jimenez book because of the issues mentioned above.
CW: infertility, chronic uterus pain, emotional abuse from parent, misogyny, death, and medical content
Age rating: 16+ (2 short spicy scenes 1/5🌶️)
Please check content warnings!!!
This was a story that really needed to be heard, and I’m glad that Abby Jimenez wrote it. It’s so frustrating that not being able to have kids or not wanting to have kids limits your dating pool so much but it DOES. And the struggle of not wanting to burden your loved ones or potential romantic partners with your health issues is SO REAL. It was very cathartic to see Kristen’s healing journey, as she became more accepting of herself and her worth despite her health issues. I also loved how Jimenez mentioned in the author’s note that this story was heavily inspired by her best friend who struggled with the same issues, making it as true and honest as possible.
This is a sort of FWB to lovers story, but they both secretly want it to be more. It was so sad seeing Kristen pushing Josh away, when he clearly wanted to be with her, but I completely understand why she did. For those who have not struggled personally with chronic health issues themselves, or something of that nature, her choices will probably be frustrating and not make sense, but it is so extremely real and accurate.
I will be honest, at the beginning, Josh seemed like such a tool. There were a few comments that made me really irritated at him, particularly his comments about women being “too much work” right now. But we do see him quickly change/grow into an extremely caring and kind man as he falls for Kristen. He quickly became the embodiment of “if he wanted to, he would”, I mean he was SO DOWN BAD for her, you don’t understand!!
Another thing I didn’t love was that there were so many references to Kristen as being a “cool girl” because she didn’t like many of the other things that girls typically enjoy (flowers, candles, etc.). Which, would be okay, if Josh didn’t act like she was superior over other women because she “wasn’t like other women”, ie. she was blunt and emotionally guarded, etc. It just kind of left a bad taste in my mouth, especially after seeing the Barbie movie, this subtle misogyny is frustrating.
One more thing I didn’t love was how heavily it talked about Kristen tying her worth with how many children she can bear, which is a misogynistic agenda that is literally shoved down women’s throats. I’m not negating that Kristen would feel this way, she definitely is valid in those feelings, and Josh’s constant comments about wanting a baseball team sized family do not help the issue. It’s not as bad as it was in the past decades, but Yeesh, I can’t believe that we still need to be having this conversation in 2023. This is not really a critique on the author, but on society in general. It’s so sad that women STILL have to deal with this misogynistic ideal.
Overall, it was a sweet story that dealt with an extremely important issue that you could tell was done with great care. These characters really and truly loved each other so much. However, it definitely wasn’t my favorite Abby Jimenez book because of the issues mentioned above.
CW: infertility, chronic uterus pain, emotional abuse from parent, misogyny, death, and medical content
Content Warnings
Graphic: Infertility
Moderate: Misogyny, Death, Emotional abuse, and Medical content
makcrowley's review
emotional
funny
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
- Loved this book, she writes funny, relatable and enjoyable characters and dialogue
- Great for people who like romance, angst, friends to lovers
- See trigger warnings, this one has a few. They are handled well IMO but do hit hard at times
Content Warnings
Graphic: Infertility, Chronic illness, and Medical trauma
Moderate: Death
Minor: Emotional abuse
kelly_e's review against another edition
emotional
funny
relaxing
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Title: The Friend Zone
Author: Abby Jimenez
Series: The Friend Zone #1
Genre: Romance
Rating: 5.00
Pub Date: June 11, 2019
T H R E E • W O R D S
Sassy • Wholesome • Emotional
📖 S Y N O P S I S
Kristen Petersen doesn't do drama, will fight to the death for her friends, and has no room in her life for guys who just don't get her. She's also keeping a big secret: facing a medically necessary procedure that will make it impossible for her to have children.
Planning her best friend's wedding is bittersweet for Kristen—especially when she meets the best man, Josh Copeland. He's funny, sexy, never offended by her mile-wide streak of sarcasm, and always one chicken enchilada ahead of her hangry. Even her dog, Stuntman Mike, adores him. The only catch: Josh wants a big family someday. Kristen knows he'd be better off with someone else, but as their attraction grows, it's harder and harder to keep him at arm's length.
💭 T H O U G H T S
Abby Jimenez has quickly climbed the list of my favourite romance authors after reading Part of Your World and Yours Truly (her two most recent releases). With that being said, I was incredibly excited to unwrap a copy of The Friend Zone, Abby's debut, as one of my blind date with a book in my most recent order from Em's Reading Boutique. I think this may just be my favourite so far.
The characters, the romance and the depth were all what made this novel standout for me. Told in alternating POVs between the male and female leads, the chemistry felt so real. Abby does the male POV really well. I've loved each of her male leads, for different reasons, so far. Their banter was fantastic and really eluded to just how comfortable they were with one another, despite Kristen's huge secret. I really connected with Kristen's inability to talk about her uterine fibroids, painful periods, and impending hysterectomy. It's hard to talk about things, especially when you don't know how the other person will react, even when there's a level of trust. In my opinion, that's part of being human. I know many readers have had issues with that part of the storyline, but I got it.
I also appreciate Abby detailing in her author's note how she based much of the story on her own best friend's infertility journey. There's also a lot of contention surrounding the ending, and it's quite possible a different ending would have been more impactful, yet I respect Abby for telling the story how she saw fit. For me, it was more about Kristen accepting the love she deserves than the 'miracle'. It's important to remember that everyone's journey is different. This is one story, and there are millions of other stories out there.
This book holds a lot of pain, which felt very realistic. I like my romances with the rawness of real life struggles and this one certainly fit that bill. I'd definitely recommend caution and doing some research before picking this one up. If you're looking for something light, this likely isn't it. But I absolutely loved this book and could not put it down! I'm looking forward to more of Sloan's in book two.
📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• Abby Jimenez devotees
• fans of dual perspective romcoms
• readers looking for a romance with depth
🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S
"'Before I broke inside. Before my body made me wrong for you. Sometimes soul mates don't end up together, Josh. They marry other people. They never meet. Or on of them dies.'"
Author: Abby Jimenez
Series: The Friend Zone #1
Genre: Romance
Rating: 5.00
Pub Date: June 11, 2019
T H R E E • W O R D S
Sassy • Wholesome • Emotional
📖 S Y N O P S I S
Kristen Petersen doesn't do drama, will fight to the death for her friends, and has no room in her life for guys who just don't get her. She's also keeping a big secret: facing a medically necessary procedure that will make it impossible for her to have children.
Planning her best friend's wedding is bittersweet for Kristen—especially when she meets the best man, Josh Copeland. He's funny, sexy, never offended by her mile-wide streak of sarcasm, and always one chicken enchilada ahead of her hangry. Even her dog, Stuntman Mike, adores him. The only catch: Josh wants a big family someday. Kristen knows he'd be better off with someone else, but as their attraction grows, it's harder and harder to keep him at arm's length.
💭 T H O U G H T S
Abby Jimenez has quickly climbed the list of my favourite romance authors after reading Part of Your World and Yours Truly (her two most recent releases). With that being said, I was incredibly excited to unwrap a copy of The Friend Zone, Abby's debut, as one of my blind date with a book in my most recent order from Em's Reading Boutique. I think this may just be my favourite so far.
The characters, the romance and the depth were all what made this novel standout for me. Told in alternating POVs between the male and female leads, the chemistry felt so real. Abby does the male POV really well. I've loved each of her male leads, for different reasons, so far. Their banter was fantastic and really eluded to just how comfortable they were with one another, despite Kristen's huge secret. I really connected with Kristen's inability to talk about her uterine fibroids, painful periods, and impending hysterectomy. It's hard to talk about things, especially when you don't know how the other person will react, even when there's a level of trust. In my opinion, that's part of being human. I know many readers have had issues with that part of the storyline, but I got it.
I also appreciate Abby detailing in her author's note how she based much of the story on her own best friend's infertility journey. There's also a lot of contention surrounding the ending, and it's quite possible a different ending would have been more impactful, yet I respect Abby for telling the story how she saw fit. For me, it was more about Kristen accepting the love she deserves than the 'miracle'. It's important to remember that everyone's journey is different. This is one story, and there are millions of other stories out there.
This book holds a lot of pain, which felt very realistic. I like my romances with the rawness of real life struggles and this one certainly fit that bill. I'd definitely recommend caution and doing some research before picking this one up. If you're looking for something light, this likely isn't it. But I absolutely loved this book and could not put it down! I'm looking forward to more of Sloan's in book two.
📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• Abby Jimenez devotees
• fans of dual perspective romcoms
• readers looking for a romance with depth
🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S
"'Before I broke inside. Before my body made me wrong for you. Sometimes soul mates don't end up together, Josh. They marry other people. They never meet. Or on of them dies.'"
Content Warnings
Graphic: Chronic illness, Car accident, Medical trauma, Infertility, Injury/Injury detail, and Medical content
Moderate: Mental illness, Grief, Blood, Cursing, Death, and Sexual content
Minor: Toxic relationship, Emotional abuse, Body shaming, Alcohol, Miscarriage, Murder, and Pregnancy
death of partnerkatharina90's review
emotional
funny
sad
medium-paced
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
3.0
An average romance with cute, funny and sad moments... and lots of cheese.
Unwillingness to communicate always bugs me in novels but it's particularly frustrating when it involves self-proclaimed "blunt" and "honest" characters.
Unwillingness to communicate always bugs me in novels but it's particularly frustrating when it involves self-proclaimed "blunt" and "honest" characters.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Death, Emotional abuse, Grief, Infertility, and Sexual content
btwnprintedpgs's review against another edition
emotional
lighthearted
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Pregnancy, Grief, Sexism, Car accident, Toxic relationship, Emotional abuse, Body shaming, Death, and Infertility
Moderate: Alcohol and Infidelity
bethjaynne's review against another edition
emotional
funny
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Content Warnings
Graphic: Car accident, Death, Emotional abuse, Grief, Infertility, and Injury/Injury detail
annahamburger's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
This book deals with heavy topics and I highly recommend checking the content warnings.
That being said I do feel the topics of infertility, mental illness, toxic parent child relationships, death, and grief were dealt with and presented gracefully, yet raw.
Infertility is discussed frequently and in detail with a variety of emotions and projected outcomes in this story.
I really enjoyed this book, and the writing was visceral and raw. Kristen was layered and real.
I wish Josh had had more layers to him, as his POV helped flesh out Kristen more than himself.
A thing I could have gone without was Josh's inner thoughts regarding Kristen as "not like other girls" and "cool and probably dated a college guy in high school".
I wish we could have spent more time in the "after" portion of the couples lives. I am hopeful to get glimpses of it in the sequels.
That being said I do feel the topics of infertility, mental illness, toxic parent child relationships, death, and grief were dealt with and presented gracefully, yet raw.
Infertility is discussed frequently and in detail with a variety of emotions and projected outcomes in this story.
I really enjoyed this book, and the writing was visceral and raw. Kristen was layered and real.
I wish Josh had had more layers to him, as his POV helped flesh out Kristen more than himself.
A thing I could have gone without was Josh's inner thoughts regarding Kristen as "not like other girls" and "cool and probably dated a college guy in high school".
I wish we could have spent more time in the "after" portion of the couples lives. I am hopeful to get glimpses of it in the sequels.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Medical trauma, Infertility, Grief, Mental illness, Medical content, and Death
Moderate: Cursing, Toxic relationship, Chronic illness, Blood, Mental illness, Pregnancy, Car accident, Panic attacks/disorders, Emotional abuse, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Infidelity, Miscarriage, Gun violence, Alcohol, and Medical content