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Bir Bedenin Gerçeği by Alex Marzano-Lesnevich

bsmith27's review against another edition

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3.0

2 stories in 1. The story of a murder and a lawyer who learned of the case. Trigger warnings: molestation and childrens' deaths.

cseibs's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective medium-paced

3.5


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erinbarton's review against another edition

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dark reflective sad slow-paced

3.0

not sure the blending of true crime and memoir aspects was entirely successful. the blurb definitely overinflated the “unsettling, uncanny familiarity” between the two stories - there were some parallels but only of small details. I definitely feel duped by the premise and expected much more of a personal connection between the author and the main criminal case rather than just she became extremely interested in it.

i feel some aspects repeatedly came up ie the author’s twin sister that died in early childhood, that didn’t really seem to hold any relevance to the book’s argument, however some details like the way her parents chose to ignore the sexual abuse from within the family seemed like such major revelations and was never addressed or reflected on? surely the covering up and continuation of a cycle of childhood sexual abuse is more relevant and holds more parallel to a true crime sexually motivated child murder case. the pedophile and convicted murderer is given an EXTREMELY sympathetic portrayal, while i agree with the authors anti-death penalty argument i’m not sure Ricky Langley deserved quite so much allowance and empathy.


while it’s hard to review a memoir of someone’s traumatic past and say it wasn’t interesting enough,  i do feel like true crime elements were more engaging and the memoir portions became somewhat repetitive once the author had reached adolescence. 

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maddiepalz's review against another edition

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medium-paced

3.75

iblyth's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

3.0


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cpeters2384's review against another edition

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challenging dark informative sad tense medium-paced

3.5

This was an uncomfortable read. A fact of a body resonates beyond the individual and ripples along anyone who knew the person and within that family, often becoming generational. I was ready to share passages from the read, that I thought pertinent to the character and the author, but I’m just having trouble doing it. Our experiences shape the way we see the world and what is done to us and others. Being a mother, and a childhood victim myself, my experiences shape me as overly protective and, may be sad to some, unforgiving to these criminals. Silence hurts, indifference hurts. Learning and consequences cause and allow change in my eyes.

rachael1206's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad fast-paced

4.0

books_with_brandon's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad tense slow-paced

3.5

amyhungerford's review against another edition

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4.0

This book is part memoir and part true crime and 100% heavy.

I won't go too much into the story it can be quite hard to read at times. There are triggers through out this whole book so it may be not suited to all readers! If you're interested in the story, I can say I did enjoy it (even though I was horrified and disgusted 95% of the time).

Ugh, using words like enjoy and like seems so inappropriate given the subject matter.

kpreads1117's review against another edition

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3.0

3.5