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Like a Love Story by Abdi Nazemian

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thewordsdevourer's review against another edition

adventurous emotional reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes

3.25

empathetic, youthful yet wise, like a love story celebrates love, queerness, and the life-saving and life-changing power of art, all while being grimly realistic w/ the context of the AIDS epidemic as well.

i could feel nazemian's passion and love for art - esp music - and its power thru this novel. there's music in many pivotal scenes, either as a new spark, comfort or celebration for the characters. an aspect of the book that i also rly like despite its grimness is the depiction of AIDS and queer life + activism: there's no romanticization of the former here, no mincing words w/ the ugliness and destruction of the disease, while the courage, rage, and sense of community of the latter are inspiring and serve as a reminder of what it took to get here. it's a revelation to see that, amid the staggering losses, many queer folks still soldier on thru sheer love and desire for a better future.

as for the characters, i like them all individually but have some issues when its comes to their relationships w/ one another. each makes sense in their own way despite - or bc of - their complexity, but tgt they make me frown in confusion sometimes. i actually rly like uncle stephen and the parents - the former and his wisdom make me tear up a few times - basically most of the side characters. however, imo the main trio is too far up their own asses a lot of the time, making their supposed friendship and dedication to one another a lil questionable.

and i dont get why art and reza start to like each other in the first place, aside from the fact that each is the first eligible gay dude of the same age that the other ever comes across. also whats up w/ that ending..art's decision seems to come outta nowhere and it's confusing bc he lets reza go way too easily despite being so in love w/ him; the whiplash is sth else. ig i wouldve liked there to be more explanation on important character decisions, instead of them just showing up in a new chapter when it's already been decided, for example w/ reza's decision to finally have sex w/ art after being afraid for months, and art's decision to go san francisco. i wanted to read their thought process on these things bc theyre such major decisions, and there just wasnt any or enough of that in the book esp towards the end.

despite the shortcomings of some of its narrative decisions, the novel's still an important one that not only sheds light on important topics like AIDS and queer activism, but also one that celebrates art and the queer community. in short, a book that embraces both the challenges and joy of being queer.

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sunnymashi's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

MESSY REVIEW BELOW!!!
Mixed emotions. Certain spots in the book felt quite impactful while other spots dragged. like Stephen’s death scene literally pained me… it was so devastating to read.

Everyone was flawed, which was a great touch of depth to all the characters. The best characters were probably the supportive older figures of Tara, Jimmy, and Stephen. Their influences brought light to the novel with their perspectives… Speaking of characters I admired how clearly separated the different points of view are. You could tell which character was which easily, which is a sign of decent characterization so I applaud that. BUTTTT I do have to say that Art’s dialogue at times sometimes felt a bit… preachy? Like I do get the intention but the execution was slightly off sometimes. The drama was so… deep?

While I get why Reza felt like he had to date Judy to try to be straight… I first off felt bad because it felt so deceitful in general but then the added layer of Judy getting so excited made me feel even worse. Also the friendship breakup was so complex it made sense but it also was frustrating??

ALSO I DID NOT EXPECT TO SEE JUDY GET IT ON WITH SAADI??! THAT WAS ABSOLUTELY SHOCKING. i was so confused and flabbergasted that that happened.

I wish the story didn’t use the f slur so much… It was uncomfortable to constantly read it

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