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applesodaperson's review
emotional
reflective
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Yeah this book was incredible. Like the book says, "the story of a family is more of a map than a novel". Because yeah this book did not feel at all like a traditional novel. I would more accurately describe it as a character portrait of a family. It explores so many rich and unique themes, that I have not read about much before. Many of the characters had intersecting identities that they had to balance. The most prominent example of this is the narrator's mother, who is arguably just as much of a main character as the narrator is. But anyways, the mother is deaf, which the story talks a lot about. The narrator does not stray away from talking about how hard this is for her mother, but also herself. The family also has the experience of being immigrants multiple times, which is another experience the author does an amazing job of portraying.
I also think this book had some interesting things to say about disability. It brought up the idea that most everyone will be disabled at some point in their lives, especially if they live to be old. Whether its Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, or even just reduced mobility, it is something that everyone will have to face.
There were also so many times when I found myself questioning if this was a nonfiction book about the author's life, because the characters lives were so rich and complex, with so many little details and experiences. That just goes to show how well written it is.
But yeah, this book does not have a plot really, although it kind of does follow the characters lives chronologically. Overall really liked this book.
I also think this book had some interesting things to say about disability. It brought up the idea that most everyone will be disabled at some point in their lives, especially if they live to be old. Whether its Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, or even just reduced mobility, it is something that everyone will have to face.
There were also so many times when I found myself questioning if this was a nonfiction book about the author's life, because the characters lives were so rich and complex, with so many little details and experiences. That just goes to show how well written it is.
But yeah, this book does not have a plot really, although it kind of does follow the characters lives chronologically. Overall really liked this book.
Content Warnings
Minor: Drug use, Kidnapping, and Suicide attempt
keegan_leech's review against another edition
emotional
informative
reflective
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
What a fascinating book. A quote from the afterword:
"Genre, in the end is just a game of possibilities and clues; it takes only a little misstep to slip out of a novel, to fall into an autobiography and resurface again in an essay, all in the short span of a sentence."
The whole book feels like exactly that. I didn't realise going in just how much of this "novel" was actually memoir, though I suspected that much of it was drawn from life. And so much of it is drawn from elsewhere. At times I felt like I was reading an academic essay on literature or philosophy, before the book slipped into what felt like fable, memoir, or idle train-of-thought. Even the references felt anarchic and eclectic. Durastanti makes reference to everything from Nautilus magazine to Beverly Hills, 90210. Bob Dylan is mentioned, and so is the controversy over his 2016 Nobel prize win.
The closest comparison I could make (very favourably) was to the writing of Patti Smith. Especially her memoirs, which can also seem at once like impossibly normal banal diary entries, bizarre modern fables, and literary musings. It's fitting that Smith too is mentioned in the book.
It's such a strange, wonderful experiment that I can't help but love it (how could I dislike any book that includes a list of influences strange enough to encompass Ursula Le Guin, Leonard Cohen, Luc Besson's Léon, and Remedy Entertainment's Max Payne). I'm sure the oddness of the novel will put some off, but if you too love experimental writing, you couldn't hope for anything better.
Oh and thematically it is an absolute tour de force. I gather Durastanti was very disappointed at the novel's (necessary) change in title in translation, but Strangers I Know is a wonderful promise of exactly what's to come in the book. Love, language, communication and community, the bizarre and horrible and wonderful experience of trying to understand another.
I'll definitely be rereading this in future, and maybe next time I will follow the original plan for the novel, and read it out of order, picking sections as I'm drawn to them.
The whole book feels like exactly that. I didn't realise going in just how much of this "novel" was actually memoir, though I suspected that much of it was drawn from life. And so much of it is drawn from elsewhere. At times I felt like I was reading an academic essay on literature or philosophy, before the book slipped into what felt like fable, memoir, or idle train-of-thought. Even the references felt anarchic and eclectic. Durastanti makes reference to everything from Nautilus magazine to Beverly Hills, 90210. Bob Dylan is mentioned, and so is the controversy over his 2016 Nobel prize win.
The closest comparison I could make (very favourably) was to the writing of Patti Smith. Especially her memoirs, which can also seem at once like impossibly normal banal diary entries, bizarre modern fables, and literary musings. It's fitting that Smith too is mentioned in the book.
It's such a strange, wonderful experiment that I can't help but love it (how could I dislike any book that includes a list of influences strange enough to encompass Ursula Le Guin, Leonard Cohen, Luc Besson's Léon, and Remedy Entertainment's Max Payne). I'm sure the oddness of the novel will put some off, but if you too love experimental writing, you couldn't hope for anything better.
Oh and thematically it is an absolute tour de force. I gather Durastanti was very disappointed at the novel's (necessary) change in title in translation, but Strangers I Know is a wonderful promise of exactly what's to come in the book. Love, language, communication and community, the bizarre and horrible and wonderful experience of trying to understand another.
I'll definitely be rereading this in future, and maybe next time I will follow the original plan for the novel, and read it out of order, picking sections as I'm drawn to them.
Content Warnings
Minor: Death of parent, Addiction, Classism, Ableism, Gaslighting, Kidnapping, Suicidal thoughts, and Alcoholism
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