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Insomniac City: New York, Oliver, and Me by Bill Hayes

rfeld's review

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challenging dark emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

4.75

josnyder's review

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emotional inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.5

katewags's review

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hopeful reflective sad medium-paced

4.25

jykchan10's review

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5.0

I will forever keep this book with me. I’m bad with words, but this book makes me want to treasure life and experience all the joyous and tragic parts of it, because that’s what it means to be alive, to be human, to connect, to feel, to love.

luci_08's review

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emotional funny reflective slow-paced

4.5

davejeffallen's review

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emotional reflective sad fast-paced

4.25

punkinmuffin's review against another edition

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4.0

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Some time earlier, the famous writer and neurologist [a:Oliver Sacks|843200|Oliver Sacks|https://images.gr-assets.com/authors/1222681187p2/843200.jpg] had read a proof of Hayes' book [b:The Anatomist: A True Story of Gray's Anatomy|1884902|The Anatomist A True Story of Gray's Anatomy|Bill Hayes|https://images.gr-assets.com/books/1320421081s/1884902.jpg|1886066]. He wrote to Hayes (still resident in San Francisco) and they began corresponding. They met for lunch when Hayes took a trip to New York. Once he moved there, they began to spend more time together. Sacks (incidentally, another insomniac) was more than thirty years older and had never "come out". Nevertheless, Hayes was deeply smitten and the two began a relationship which would continue until Sacks' death in 2015. The memoir deftly interweaves sketches of their private life together with Hayes' parallel deepening relationship with his new home city. The end product is a book that is intimate and loving, a tribute to the essence of who Sacks was and to the ceaseless, rushing heart of New York City.

wiggltuff's review against another edition

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5.0

Feels odd to rate a memoir but I LOVED the writing style. This book made me FEEL

denisecg's review

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5.0

Beautiful and inspiring. One of a handful of books that softened and unstitched me.

alicediana's review

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

4.75