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Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic by Alison Bechdel

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dandeliongirl's review against another edition

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4.0

“Sexual shame is in itself a kind of death.”
I don’t usually like or read graphic novels, but this books is an exception. What a unique way to write a memoir. The way Bechdel reflects on how she connects her queerness with her father’s in the last chapter is particularly poignant.

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3.5


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4.0


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dee_dreams's review against another edition

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5.0

The complexity of the narrative and the breadth of topics that Bechdel breaches in her biography is truly astounding.  She demonstrates what my creative nonfiction writing professor meant when she said, "It's a paradox, but being more specific and more personal can help readers relate to your story more."

It is a graphic novel – wonderfully illustrated – but a challenging read due not only to the subject matter, but the allusions and analysis of existing literature.

Fun Home helps you understand not only what it is like to be Alison Bechdel, it reminds you that everybody else is living a reality with as much complication, personal meanings, quirks, desires, and traumas as your own. i.e., "sonder."

"The purpose of poetry is to remind us / how difficult it is to remain just one person" - Czesław Miłosz

Bechdel's frankness, courage, and creativity in telling her story her way is nothing short of inspiring.

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krivas91's review against another edition

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3.5

3.5 stars? I always find it weird rating an author’s autobiographical content…but there’s still things that can be said. I appreciate the author’s extreme openness with her readers, and found it just really interesting to view her experience coming out as a lesbian while becoming aware of her father’s sexual activities and advances toward young men (teenagers), and figuring herself out as a child of two parents who did not outwardly/visibly show her love and affection hardly ever. 

However, there were so many times that the text was just so heavy (in the emotional sense, but also the literal-literature sense), and I found myself asking if we were even intended to read the images when she would picture mostly illegible letters by her father. 

Also, one review here noted the “references to classic literature that are carefully, artfully implemented and never daunting,” but I’d have to disagree; I understand that she connected to her father through literature and that’s why she included so much of it in her recollection, but I do think I felt like I was really missing something when I didn’t understand references or a few high-vocabulary words. I don’t think she could have written her way totally around that (or that she should have), but I do fear that some readers who could really use exposure to the coming out + family relationships content might be turned off of this book earlier on because of the dense presence of classic literature references.

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4.75


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mommybookwyrmm's review against another edition

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Very depressing and I was not in the right mindset for it.

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jaywithwhiskey's review against another edition

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2.0

It was fine. I think this book was much more hyped up than I enjoyed it. I read this after someone told me this is where the Bechdel test started - sadly I thought it was this book particularly - so I was waiting for when it came around. It never did. I was bored through most of the story sadly, I couldn't relate this this story but I appreciate it for what it is. Just not for me. 

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beata's review against another edition

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 Maybe I didn't pay close enough attention to the blurb, but when I read that the father was gay, I did not expect to see in the book itself that he slept with "boys" aka his high school students. Then I immediatly thought oh, he killed himself because the truth was out and he was facing charges. But no, he maybe killed himself because his wife was finally fed up and asked for divorce. He was even facing charges years before, on surface about giving alcohol to minor but if the author is to believed with unspoken accusation of at least soliciting minor (maybe even full on sexual assault). 
The story is messed up on many many levels. First, her father was himself sexually abused as a child. Then he went on to do this to others. Then we learn that his psychiatrist very possibly had an affair with him during court mandated appointments?! Of course I also can't forget physical abuse of his own children. And last but not least was the author glossing over the abuse her father inflicted on others. 
I'll be honest with you, I've read graphic novels a lot longer than this one, and they felt shorter.
I will not rate it, lately I'm more reluctant to rate non-fiction, especially of the memoir kind. Who am I to say if someone's life story is a 3 or 5 star?
This will definitely stay with me, though not necessarily in a good way. 

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waytoomanybooks's review against another edition

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4.0

There's nothing I can say about Fun Home that hasn't already been said by better, smarter people with better, smarter vocabulary, so I'll just say that I found this book deeply relatable, deeply sad, and deeply hopeful. It's a gorgeous book with gorgeous prose and gorgeous illustrations. I highly recommend it, but it's not for the faint of heart. 

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