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good_names_dont_exist's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Cursing, Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Gaslighting, Homophobia, and Biphobia
Minor: Adult/minor relationship
lollipopkenny123's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, and Emotional abuse
sshabein's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Homophobia
mirandalikesbooks's review against another edition
5.0
The thing that sets this book apart is the way it was written. The tone feels like poetry while equally being digestible and readable. The switch between first and second person was such an interesting way to tell a story. The "I" was disconnected from the "you" but still told told a cohesive account of Machado's story. The you chapters invited the reader in to examine the parts of their reality that they are disconnected from too.
This perspective on domestic abuse intersected with queer culture intersected with fat culture and with religious trauma is engaging and terrible and inspiring.
A wonderful read.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Addiction, Rape, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual content, Stalking, Bullying, Lesbophobia, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Alcoholism, Drug use, Gaslighting, and Homophobia
Moderate: Fatphobia and Body shaming
Minor: Panic attacks/disorders, Infidelity, and Mental illness
_jmstone_'s review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Homophobia, Emotional abuse, and Physical abuse
readwithev's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, Lesbophobia, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Homophobia
Minor: Vomit
karie's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Homophobia and Sexual assault
handful_of_frogs's review against another edition
3.75
Moderate: Homophobia, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, Classism, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Alcohol, Body shaming, Bullying, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, and Gaslighting
aymboi's review against another edition
The book is about the author's abusive queer relationship and I think she did a good job detailing these experiences in an emotional and reflective way while also talking about how abuse in queer relationships is often overlooked in society.
The structure is different from other books I have read and it made this very hard to put down. I will probably be thinking about this for a while and I definitely recommend it!!
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Toxic relationship, Gaslighting, and Sexual content
mald626's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Physical abuse, Domestic abuse, Gaslighting, and Homophobia
Moderate: Sexual assault, Fatphobia, Vomit, Violence, Adult/minor relationship, and Infidelity
Minor: Dementia and Fire/Fire injury