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Stay True by Hua Hsu

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4.5

Stay True is Hua Hsu's memoir centering his college years and his friendship with Ken, a fellow classmate. 

I had no previous knowledge of Hua Hsu but that didn't detract from my enjoyment of his memoir, it goes into a young Taiwanese American man's life as he navigates his journey through college. He strives to be alternative and fully outside of the mainstream, which was quite enjoyable for me. His passion for writing starts with putting together zines about his favorite subjects, mainly music. 

I really enjoyed learning about his participation in activism around campus and the history of activism during various times in history. I didn't enjoy the philosophy sections as much, but that's just a personal preference. 

Overall I'd recommend the audio since it also allowed me to hear the emotions in certain sections of the book, which made it even more powerful. 

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3.0


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4.5


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4.0

A wonderful memoir that gracefully interweaves culture, friendship, and youth.

I loved Hsu's lyrical writing and how nostalgic his prose was. The memoir was sprinkled with setting specific details that left me wistful of a time period where I didn't even exist yet. He recollects growing up as a second generation Asian American Californian youth in the 90s, interlacing the ways that shaped his identity, along with the clothes, music, and the cultural and political events especially during his college years. He also details the unlikely friendship he develops with Ken, and the grief and guilt he feels after Ken's murder. The memoir is vivid, atmospheric, and so insightful. You're transported to moments in Hsu's life where he is very emotionally honest in the way he shows us the person he was during his teens and early 20s.

Reading this leaves me reflecting on my own friendships and the inkling of fear I have of death, not for my own but for the people around me, and if I'll ever be able to remember them with the clarity Hsu seems to of Ken. I think the worst part of mortality, besides loss, is how fleeting memory is and the way details will be forgotten and how all we can ask is Can you stay with me a little longer?

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mikarala's review against another edition

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5.0

Although I'm a bit older than our author was during the time of his life he chronicles in this novel, I deeply related to so many aspects of his life that he details in this memoir: the feelings of youthful ennui, the narcissistic impulse towards snobbery, the obsessive deep dives into obscure topics... Hsu's memoir has a vivid realism that I think anyone who has ever felt displaced or adrift can relate to, even though this story is saturated in references to '90s pop culture, Northern California lifestyle, and the Asian-American experience. None of those things may be relevant to my own life experience, and yet the evocative, beautifully-crafted prose manages to bring you to this time and place and see yourself in Hsu's own life. 

I was truly blown away by this memoir, and it's one of very few books I've ever read and thought "I need to read this again in a decade and see if my perspective changes". I believe this is an excellent story about friendship, growing up, and identity regardless of one's perspective, but it may feel particularly potent to any young adult still struggling to find their place in the world.

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emotional reflective sad fast-paced

4.5

This powerful memoir was about so much more than grief and friendship. As Hua Hsu immersed me in 1990s California I became swept along the waves of his coming of age, from faxed letters exchanged with his father to misguided, firmly held convictions to diary entries tinged with feeling, from rooftop balconies to dorm room hangouts to dusty record shops… then along the path of shock and grief, coping and not coping. Interspersed with questions of identity and belonging, history and memory… How can I express my thoughts except to say, life is so sad sometimes.

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