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All My Puny Sorrows by Miriam Toews

8 reviews

fkshg8465's review against another edition

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emotional sad
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

This really is a book of sorrows. Gives us a view of depression and determination and grief and resilience.

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savvylit's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

All My Puny Sorrows is a devastating book about a deep love between two sisters. Inspired by her own sister's death, Miriam Toews has written a book that is both beautiful and sorrowful in equal measures. It's clear that she knows all too well what it feels like loving someone who no longer wishes to live. All My Puny Sorrows is also one of the most astonishingly empathetic books about depression that I have ever encountered. This novel represents mental illness as a literal, genuine illness. Unfortunately, that is still a rare thing to encounter in art.

Highly highly recommend this to anyone who is willing to read such a deeply sad yet moving story.

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abbruzzese's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

She says isn’t it funny how every second, every minute, every day, month, year, is accounted for, capable of being named—when time, or life, is so unwieldy, so intangible and slippery? This makes her feel compassion toward the people who invented the concept of “telling time.” How hopeful, she says. How beautifully futile. How perfectly human.

another winner from miriam toews! it did not do to me emotionally what a complicated kindness or irma voth did, but it is still a fantastic book. i think what kept me from fully connecting to the story was just the age of the characters; being a 20 means i find it hard to relate fully to adults. however, that did not prevent me from crying all my mascara off. 

a warning for anyone sensitive to suicide: this book has a lot of it. it's a main theme, written explicitly at times, and it's unavoidable. so just a heads up if you're wary about that kind of stuff!

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vanesst's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad slow-paced

5.0


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rieviolet's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.75

After reading the blurb and some reviews, I started out with very high expectations, I thought I'd really get on well with the book. Honestly, I struggled to even finish it, when I put it down I was not very tempted to pick it back up. 

There were parts, here and there, that I liked but I felt as if the narration lost itself along the way; some sections I found very slow or just plain weird and nonsensical. 
I struggled with the writing style the most, I think it is just a case of it not being my cup of tea. I found it confusing, a bit all over the place, I could not get used to it, especially the way the dialogues were integrated into the text and not signalled by punctuation. 

Getting into it, I knew the book would deal with difficult and heavy topics, it's not as if I was expecting a lighthearted reading experience but still, it was a lot more graphic than I expected and at times unnecessarily so. If suicide is a difficult topic for you to read about, I suggest being kind to yourself and staying away from this book altogether.

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brookebatesratesbooks's review

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challenging dark emotional funny reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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danidamico's review

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challenging funny sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes

5.0

Me encantó el tono de esta novela, tragicómico o lo que también se conoce como dramedy. Algo con un tono similar que vi en el último tiempo es la película Cha Cha Real Smooth de Cooper Raiff. En lugar de encarar las tragedias y los momentos difíciles de la vida con solemnidad o a través del melodrama, Miriam Toews lo hace desde un punto de vista en el que lo triste convive con el humor, con la cotidianeidad. Trata la depresión y el suicidio como cosas que pasan, que simplemente forman parte de la vida.

También me gustó muchísimo la voz narradora de Yoli, me terminé encariñando con ella y me sentí identificada en ciertas cosas. Es un personaje complejo que resulta muy realista en su caos, su forma de ser y de lidiar con la enfermedad de su hermana. El elenco de personajes secundarios me pareció espectacular, sobre todo Lottie, la madre de las protagonistas.

Ahora lo que no me gustó tanto: debo admitir que se me hizo un poco largo. Disfruté de la mayoría de las digresiones, no me molestan como a otres lectores, pero sí creo que el libro podría haber terminado antes o que se podrían haber recortado ciertas partes para hacerlo más dinámico más allá de la sensación de repetición que tiene que ver con el abordaje de las enfermedades mentales. En fin, es una cuestión de opinión personal.

Edit 4/3/2023: Subí el puntaje de un 4 a un 4.5 porque cada tanto vuelvo a pensar en esta novela y me doy cuenta de que me encantó.

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dannythestreet's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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