JZA June 2021

Whew, this was STRESSFUL. But beautifully written!

Miserable book all around.
Very annoyed by male authors thinking they can write 1st person female perspectives.
The only good in this one were the snippets of Iranian culture.

I bought this book from a thrift store a couple of years ago and it has sat unread on my bookshelf until now. After finishing it I'm embarrassed I didn't read it sooner!

I love this book. I love the way it's written, I love how the story comes together, I love how the characters are desperate and lonely all in their own way.

Review first published on my blog: http://memoriesfrombooks.blogspot.com/2012/03/house-of-sand-and-fog.html

House of Sand and Fog is indeed the story of a house and the two sets of people who both feel that it is rightfully theirs. The Behranis are a family displaced from their homeland of Iran due to revolution. To them, this house is a last chance to restore some dignity to their lives. Kathy Lazaro is a recovering alcoholic and addict. To her, this house is her last refuge. The house is confiscated from Kathy Lazaro for tax purposes. The Behranis purchase it at auction. The rest of the book is the story of struggle between the two, leading to a dramatic and sad conclusion.

House of Sand and Fog is one of the most depressing books I have read in a long time. All 365 pages of it. There is the longing of the Behrani family for a life long gone and a homeland no longer open to them. It is their struggle to understand a new place and to create a new life for themselves. It is their sad attempt to maintain appearances of their past successes and position in life.

Then, there is Kathy Lazaro. She struggles with her recovery from alcoholism and addiction. She has left her home and family to build a new life with her husband in California. Her husband deserts her. So, she too struggles with finding a new place and creating a new life. She too attempts to maintain the appearances of her happy, married life to her family back home.

Thrown into this mix is Lester Burton. He is a police officer who gets involved with Kathy Lazaro. He proceeds down a path that leads them all to a catastrophic result.

The characters in this book are realistic. The emotions they feel and the situations they find themselves in also ring true. Unfortunately, the overwhelming sadness of this book makes it very difficult to read. In addition, the writing style is one based on long paragraphs and long descriptions. That too makes the book difficult to read. I found myself reading steadily for a while, then skimming through a portion of the book, and then reading the ending. Even so, I was left with an overwhelming depressing feeling and a need to step away from the story.

This book definitely held my interest but the characters made me want to smash my head against a wall! There were so many chances for them to straighten things out & in the end the story ended tragically for everyone involved...no happy ending here!

Dubus couldn't have drawn these characters any more superbly. A totally avoidable tragedy unavoided. I empathized with all the characters, rare for me to do. I love this book.

It was just kinda boring and I hated all of the characters. I get the story they were trying to portray, but it just didn't work for me. 

Can't remember a book that I have disliked more than this - I kept hoping I would start caring about the characters, but it just never happened. It was like a train wreck - you KNEW what was coming, but couldn't turn away -- in my case, since I found the characters shallow and annoying it didn't really matter. Ick.