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A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara

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drmcsweetness's review

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Most beautiful piece of art I have ever had the privilege to ingest. This book traumatized me. I can never recommend this book to anyone and honestly I don't know if it should have been written. Truly beautiful. Spoilers. Sex trafficking. It's about the life of a young man who was sex trafficked. 

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tossevent's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

I think I'm one of the rare cases where this book was neither amazing nor completely terrible for me. I walked in only knowing that it was a controversial book and walked out agreeing that it was controversial, I guess.

To start I think it's quite well written. At the same time I do feel that the author tends use these run-on sentences that makes it difficult for me to understand who specifically she's speaking about. It's mostly an issue with sentence structure/grammar for me. But on the other side, she is a master at crafting a specific atmosphere that casts a wide shadow throughout the whole book. And I speak of this shadow not necessarily in terms of the book's content (although it certainly applies here) but just the way she creates the environment envelops the story.

She does an excellent job of putting you in Jude's mind and justifying his actions. He is a very well developed character but unfortunately almost the only developed character. Although she does a good job developing the rest of the cast, they really only serve as devices to Jude's life. Understandably, that was the author's project and vision. Unfortunately, as impressive as her writing is, the topic did not interest me or draw me in. It's extremely provocative but I never find myself unable to put the book down. There are many specific instances where I find topics that are indeed interesting and felt even relatable: Harold's little monologue about having children was an interesting exploration of the topic, even some of Jude's actions can be relatable (coming from someone with minimal trauma in their life) but it is really only these specific cases that I find interesting. Jude as a whole, as a character (and thus this book) are not a topic of my interest. For me it would have been a more effective story if we delved into the side characters much more. I wanted to see more between the 4 main characters throughout the book but really after the first quarter of the book we hardly see JB and Malcolm anymore.

My other nitpick is that her descriptions of travel can get long-winded and add no value for me. I think it's a great device because she inserts so much of this glamor amidst 800 pages of slow-paced reading so you slowly forget about all the terrible things that happened to Jude-and this replicates the repression of his memories very effectively for the reader; at a certain point I also forgot about Caleb as Jude probably very much wanted to. But overall I found myself being almost bored by these descriptions. It was an effective device in a meta way - more for the reader than it was for the characters.

Is it trauma porn? Probably, but unfortunately it's so well crafted that I can't completely write it off as a terrible piece of literature. You could argue it's perhaps worse than bad literature because it has the ability to poison the mind. It certainly impacted my mind during the week or so I was reading it. My friend said "it's very well written but she could have kept all that to herself" and that's the best way to put it.

Overall: Impressive world crafting but uninteresting topic and some issues with writing style; it's a character study done very well that I'm not particularly interested in.  [Side note: author also has a tendency to write about very similar topics...  đźš©  đźš©  đźš©

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ccheheche's review

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challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

i want to say that i finished this book because i could say that i read a little life but that would be a lie i was really interested to see what could possibly come next and how much worse things could actually get. i cried like 10 separate times reading this book. overall (i can’t say i enjoyed it…) i was surprised that i liked the book more than i was expecting. although, some parts just dragged on so much with such difficult language and jargon and specificities that it rly just felt like the author was writing these things just to make themself seem smarter and i hateeeee when books do that. overall, a very interesting read, i found myself very invested in jude and willem and harold’s lives. 

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harrys96's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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katykate's review

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challenging emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75


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bookish2024's review

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challenging dark emotional sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

Not for the faint of heart. This book is very, very well written, but the depression you experience after it is real.

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ellesbigworld's review

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

I FUCKING DID IT
I should have taken the fact that I found this book on the side of the road, beaten and bruised, as a sign that maybe I shouldn’t spend the next 2 months reading it. I feel like I am Alan Parrish when he found Jumanji in a construction site and now that curiosity killed the cat, I’m running through a grocery store fighting off Van Pelt with laundry detergent and a price-check scanner. In the same way, I felt determined to finish this book, reach Jumanji, and call out its name. This story will make your mind turn to mush, wish for illiteracy, and force you to fight off demons you didn’t even know you were running from. A Little Life forces an introspection of your own little life and the events that make you who you are. As much as they are insufferable, whiney babies, I think we can all find a place for Jude, Willem, Harold, JB, and Malcolm in our thoughts as we endure the epic poem that Hanya Yanagihara has chained us up in her basement with. I have gone through such a cycle of emotions carrying this book with me for all of 2025 so far and it has taught me two things. One of them being to not listen to people about book recommendations. And two being to listen to people about book recommendations. So many things can be true at once and through this book, I have witnessed a new meaning to the whole being greater than the sum of its parts. I feel simultaneously conflicted and secure in my opinion of this book being “do not read this pretentious trauma porn” as well as “step out of your comfort zone and read this pretensions trauma porn.” I can feel several mindless, one-dimensional books heading my way and I will absolutely not be fighting them off. As so many things can be true at once, I feel the need for something to ground me once again after being flung into a strange new world where things are not black and white OR a thousand shades of grey, but a new color palette entirely. I’m proud of myself for finishing, but I will not run this race again. Read the book, don’t read the book, I don’t care, but recommending this book to someone is crazier to me than reading it at all.

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appalachianaltuntas's review

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challenging dark emotional slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

Beautiful writing and characters that will stick with me for years. However it could’ve been a good 300 pages shorter, and more importantly, I think the portrayal of trauma was not done in a sensitive way. It makes me think the author has not been through any of the things she explores in this book, because if she had, she would never describe it in these ways. But rather, she uses this heavy, graphic content to shock and further her plot rather than discuss honestly. It felt voyeuristic and sadistic, not a sensitive exploration of how trauma impacts someone and those around him. That being said, my heart breaks for Jude and I’ll think about him every day now ❤️ Impactful book, but I feel icky about the author and I think the story could’ve been executed in a much more beautiful and gentler way. 

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brittelyza's review

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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purplepandajen's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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