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scmiller's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
informative
sad
tense
medium-paced
3.25
Content Warnings
Graphic: Abandonment, Adult/minor relationship, Body horror, Child abuse, Child death, Death, Excrement, Racism, Sexual violence, Sexism, Addiction, Grief, Gun violence, Sexual assault, Torture, Blood, Classism, Death of parent, Misogyny, Murder, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexual content, War, Gore, Hate crime, Rape, Sexual harassment, Xenophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Emotional abuse, Genocide, and Violence
Homelessness, extreme povertydawestermann's review against another edition
4.0
Difficult to read at parts because it portrays what I imagine to be an accurate picture of what life in Africa can be for many children.
milesbruno1's review against another edition
dark
emotional
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.75
I absolutely love this book. I think this book is must-read. BUT, this book has some scenes that are absolutely disgusting. Some scenes made me physically ill due to how actually foul they are. Many scenes involve crimes against children, murder, SA, and gore. If you are squeamish around this sort of content, I do not recommend this book. Otherwise this book is an absolute masterpiece. The way Uwem incorporates different languages and cultures is absolutely stunning. The 5 stories in this book are all amazing. All showing struggle and adversity through the eyes of children. I highly recommend it.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Rape, Child abuse, Murder, and Religious bigotry
Moderate: Alcoholism, Injury/Injury detail, and Physical abuse
ultimatekate's review against another edition
5.0
Wow.
These short stories, all of which feature children as the main character (and often narrator), highlight the unrest in places like Nigeria, Rwanda, and Kenya. The stories cover a range of topics: religion, civil unrest, poverty, and child slavery.
This book was eye-opening for me in a number of ways. I knew that people in certain countries were brain-washed to, say, hate another religion, but I never realized how deep this was until reading this book. Also, I think that by making the children the focus of the stories, the problems that the people of this continent face are magnified tenfold. It's one thing to hear about a person being killed, but it's quite another for that person to be a child.
Just a note: some of these short stories are long. "Luxurious Hearses", for instance, is over 130 pages. Coincidentally, it was my favorite of the stories, but really, all of them are well-written, with developed, believable characters.
These short stories, all of which feature children as the main character (and often narrator), highlight the unrest in places like Nigeria, Rwanda, and Kenya. The stories cover a range of topics: religion, civil unrest, poverty, and child slavery.
This book was eye-opening for me in a number of ways. I knew that people in certain countries were brain-washed to, say, hate another religion, but I never realized how deep this was until reading this book. Also, I think that by making the children the focus of the stories, the problems that the people of this continent face are magnified tenfold. It's one thing to hear about a person being killed, but it's quite another for that person to be a child.
Just a note: some of these short stories are long. "Luxurious Hearses", for instance, is over 130 pages. Coincidentally, it was my favorite of the stories, but really, all of them are well-written, with developed, believable characters.
tamgperkins's review against another edition
4.0
You can not read this book and not continue to think about the characters. What makes the book so haunting is the thought that these are real life scenerios.
book_concierge's review against another edition
4.0
Digital audiobook (abridged) performed by Robin Miles & Dion Graham
This is a collection of short stories, dealing with various social issues facing African people throughout numerous countries on the continent. One story may deal with the Rwandan genocide (My Parents’ Bedroom), while another explores the competing goals of a family at Christmas (An Ex-Mas Feast), and yet another shows how a desperate uncle raising children orphaned by AIDS is coerced into an agreement he cannot keep (Fattening for Gabon). Two stories deal with the differences between Muslims and Christians (Luxurious Hearses focuses on a Muslim youth living with his mother in Nigeria’s north who is hoping to reunite with his Christian father in the south, while two six-year-old Best Friends in Ethiopia try to understand why their parents now tell them they must not play with one another (What Language Is That?).
All are beautifully written even when heart-wrenchingly difficult to read. Uwem focuses an unblinking eye on serious issues and while the reader is fortunate to not have to face such dilemmas, the reactions of the characters are totally understandable and relatable. The local English dialect used in some of the stories was sometimes difficult to get used to, but really gave a sense of place to the narrative.
The audiobook is abridged, with narrators reading only three of the stories. Still, Robin Miles and Dion Graham do a wonderful job of performing the text. And it is sometimes easier to understand the local dialect by hearing it than reading it on the page.
This is a collection of short stories, dealing with various social issues facing African people throughout numerous countries on the continent. One story may deal with the Rwandan genocide (My Parents’ Bedroom), while another explores the competing goals of a family at Christmas (An Ex-Mas Feast), and yet another shows how a desperate uncle raising children orphaned by AIDS is coerced into an agreement he cannot keep (Fattening for Gabon). Two stories deal with the differences between Muslims and Christians (Luxurious Hearses focuses on a Muslim youth living with his mother in Nigeria’s north who is hoping to reunite with his Christian father in the south, while two six-year-old Best Friends in Ethiopia try to understand why their parents now tell them they must not play with one another (What Language Is That?).
All are beautifully written even when heart-wrenchingly difficult to read. Uwem focuses an unblinking eye on serious issues and while the reader is fortunate to not have to face such dilemmas, the reactions of the characters are totally understandable and relatable. The local English dialect used in some of the stories was sometimes difficult to get used to, but really gave a sense of place to the narrative.
The audiobook is abridged, with narrators reading only three of the stories. Still, Robin Miles and Dion Graham do a wonderful job of performing the text. And it is sometimes easier to understand the local dialect by hearing it than reading it on the page.
sare1125's review against another edition
adventurous
challenging
dark
emotional
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? N/A
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Content Warnings
Graphic: Abandonment, War, Sexual violence, Death, and Child abuse
Moderate: Excrement and Trafficking
mrswhite's review against another edition
4.0
Say You’re One of Them is a heartbreaking collection of short stories (or, rather, two novellas and three short stories), each set in a different country in Africa. A champion of children, Uwem's collection shines a clear light on the harsh realities of life for many African kids.
In each of these stories, innocence collides with corruption. Set in Benin, “Fattening for Gabon” depicts an uncle who, as the guardian of two AIDS orphans, plans to sell his young charges into slavery. In “An Ex-Mas Feast,” a twelve-year-old girl takes to the Nairobi streets, prostituting herself so that she can feed her family and raise money for her younger brother’s school fees, as he's the sole hope of the destitute family. And in the horrifying “My Parents’ Bedroom,” two Rwandan children bear witness to the unspeakable as their Hutu friends and family members form a violent, mindless mob set on ridding their community of its Tutsi residents. It isn't pretty to think about the things that these children are forced to witness and endure, however these fictitious stories are the reality of many kids, and it's a truth that far too many of us would rather ignore.
Since author Uwem Akpan is also a Jesuit priest, it is hardly surprising that religion permeates these stories, but never in a way that is dogmatic. Rather than choose sides, Akpan instead highlights the innocent victims of religiously-fueled hatred. In the elegantly simple “In What Language Is That?,” a little Ethiopian girl is no longer allowed to see or speak to "Best Friend" because she is Christian and her little friend is Muslim. Although violence is implied rather than illustrated in this piece, the reader just the same feels the dismay of these two little ones who fail to see the difference between them. Following that is the novella “Luxurious Hearses,” which depicts a sixteen-year-old orthodox Muslim boy who, born Catholic, becomes a target of resentment and fear in his own Islamic community, and then again amongst the Christian refugees he tries to flee south with after a violent Islamic uprising in his native Nigeria. And while I felt that this piece was the weakest of the bunch, its ending remains seared in my memory.
Although I generally found the novellas to be less affecting than the short stories - which were somehow more powerful for their conciseness - all five of these pieces are piercing and powerful, and Akpan's prose is positively beautiful despite the ugly subject matter. In short, Say You're One of Them is a startling collection by an important author. Whatever Akpan writes next, I will read.
In each of these stories, innocence collides with corruption. Set in Benin, “Fattening for Gabon” depicts an uncle who, as the guardian of two AIDS orphans, plans to sell his young charges into slavery. In “An Ex-Mas Feast,” a twelve-year-old girl takes to the Nairobi streets, prostituting herself so that she can feed her family and raise money for her younger brother’s school fees, as he's the sole hope of the destitute family. And in the horrifying “My Parents’ Bedroom,” two Rwandan children bear witness to the unspeakable as their Hutu friends and family members form a violent, mindless mob set on ridding their community of its Tutsi residents. It isn't pretty to think about the things that these children are forced to witness and endure, however these fictitious stories are the reality of many kids, and it's a truth that far too many of us would rather ignore.
Since author Uwem Akpan is also a Jesuit priest, it is hardly surprising that religion permeates these stories, but never in a way that is dogmatic. Rather than choose sides, Akpan instead highlights the innocent victims of religiously-fueled hatred. In the elegantly simple “In What Language Is That?,” a little Ethiopian girl is no longer allowed to see or speak to "Best Friend" because she is Christian and her little friend is Muslim. Although violence is implied rather than illustrated in this piece, the reader just the same feels the dismay of these two little ones who fail to see the difference between them. Following that is the novella “Luxurious Hearses,” which depicts a sixteen-year-old orthodox Muslim boy who, born Catholic, becomes a target of resentment and fear in his own Islamic community, and then again amongst the Christian refugees he tries to flee south with after a violent Islamic uprising in his native Nigeria. And while I felt that this piece was the weakest of the bunch, its ending remains seared in my memory.
Although I generally found the novellas to be less affecting than the short stories - which were somehow more powerful for their conciseness - all five of these pieces are piercing and powerful, and Akpan's prose is positively beautiful despite the ugly subject matter. In short, Say You're One of Them is a startling collection by an important author. Whatever Akpan writes next, I will read.
nderiley's review against another edition
1.0
I'm not one of them. I don't understand all the rewards this book received. While I appreciate the author tackling a difficult subject matter, we shouldn't overlook basic writing skills! Luxurious Hearses was one of the worst stories I've ever read. You don't need 200 pages to describe one night on a bus - there was too much needless dialog I swear if you dictated the lines the amount of time to read through the supposed conversation would take longer than the night that was supposed to have passed.
Pan.
Pan.
lsparrow's review against another edition
4.0
intense short stories all told from the eyes of three children.
powerful and not for the faint of heart.
powerful and not for the faint of heart.