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Tusen små bitar by James Frey

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ok BRB doing a deep dive to see how much of this is actually real. i liked the way it was written and the story told and the relationships but i just have to call into question the whole “billing it as a memoir when its largely embellished/fictional” other addicts could think that they can do what he did idk im not sure if its caused any harm or if he drew from real stories but its an important look at the addiction and  the struggle toward recovery.

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I really enjoyed this. I read it with the perspective that this is autofiction and understand that some times James is a little full of himself, definitely self boasting (he wants to be seen as tough and so he writes himself as being the toughest guy in the room), sometimes he’s making stuff up, and sometimes life just has coincidences that might be funny and true and so there’s no problem writing what you personally experienced. 
I didn’t mind the writing style either, but I also normally read a lot of fiction with very loose rules and experimental writing. That doesn’t mean James always does it correctly and yes there are in general a lot of grammatical errors.  Many sentences that are not “style” but clear indications that he is not an English major. But in some way that’s kind of the honesty of the prose and storytelling that is so compelling. This is an addict writing. He’s been a liar for his entire life. And now you expect him to give you the honest truth? So take the entire story with a grain of salt, or maybe that should be a Line of Salt, and you might just enjoy it for what it is: A damn good addiction-recovery story. 

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Stream of consciousness is not my usual preference of writing style but it suited the contents of this book well. The Serenity prayer really has resonated with me, and I think and hope that’s something I carry with me for a long time: “May I find the serenity to accept what I cannot change, the courage to change what I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” Lowered the rating some as much of the book is fabricated, which was a big and unfortunate surprise. Still, a really good read for those interested in this sort of writing/topic. 

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If nobody had mentioned the controversy surroundig this book, I'd have assumed it was fictional anyway, and had it been originally marketed as fiction it would likely gained more success. That being said, it was a great read - intense, difficult, traumatic and very detailed.

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I didn’t read this book in one go. I read about half of it probably 8+ years ago. Not sure why I put it down but I’m glad I finally finished it. I love his approach to sobriety being unique, simply making the decision each time not to use. Lily is an obvious favorite character other than James. The writing style is something I’ve never seen before. Dialogue is quick paced and some portions are in depth and impossible to ignore. I know this is a good book because I still remember parts of the first half I read 8+ years ago. I’m sure the rest of the book will stick with me longer.

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FINALLY!!!!

THIS BOOK IS TOO HEAVY TO SPEED THROUGH. that end note? as if the whole book is not enough to break me? 

i won't deny that this book is all but DRAGGY (took me months!!! had long breaks in between) but i also admit its praises in terms of depicting the lives enslaved by addiction. *claps* it taught me a lot of things about it and given the time it took me to finish this, it'll definitely lessen the chance of me forgetting. it discussed a lot of sad and hard facts about addiction: how small a chance for one to make it to recovery even after rehab; how stigma greatly affects this chance; how genes and addiction are related; the perspectives of people going through addiction: how they got into it; tried to get better and failed many times; etc. it showed how vulnerable and human they are still, in contrary to the prejudice  oftenly charged against them. i am attached to the community (u know i love communities 🥺) James had within the rehab, and it was heartbreaking to read about their struggles. this book was good in all that matter although i must say that 80% of the part, James didn't make this an easy ride because of his writing style and format... :| no quotations aside, there are a lot of repetitive monologues that exhausted my reading energy lol. although i understand it might be for poetic volume, but that purpose was only defeated by making it more draggy and LONG. i mean-- the theme IS DARK and GRAPHIC enough, no need for emphasis on that, James. 

also, i can't help but critique James' sense of self-reliance. i'm happy for his recovery and all, but throughout the book, this self-reliance made this memoir a little bit performative, hence, it gave me doubts regarding the truthfulness of his testimony. definitely not a fan of this attitude from him but nonetheless, i still respect his journey and rejoice in his sobriety. (this book shone a new light major on respect for me, btw)

would i recommend this book? yes and no. yes, because as i've mentioned, it has real addiction and rehab content that could inspire change in the way we empathize people going through addiction, and change in the management of addiction especially within family corners. i wouldn't recommend this if you can find another book with the same type of content but more accessible in writing because this might get you into a slump. :') 

all in all, i give it a 3.5 ⭐

TW: GRAPHIC (!!!) contents of violence, sex, drugs, sexual abuse & harrassment, foul language, suicide

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