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The Romantic Agenda by Claire Kann

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the_vegan_bookworm's review against another edition

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lighthearted relaxing fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.5

I loved the diverse asexual representation in this book! Both Malcolm and Joy showed unique aspects of the spectrum of asexuality. I also loved how autism-coded Joy is, and I really related to a lot of her experiences with being 'too honest'.

I like the dynamic between Fox and Joy, as it is PEAK grumpy x sunshine. This being said, I didn't feel invested in the plotline with Malcolm because he never seemed to be an appealing character to me. Like I can't see why she is so into him, which undercuts a lot of the plotline.

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emilineopines's review

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challenging emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

3.25


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kcbatts's review against another edition

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lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes

4.25


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cheye13's review

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emotional hopeful lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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bookhoarderbea's review against another edition

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emotional
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25


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decklededgess's review

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

trigger warnings: anxiety and panic attacks, racist microaggressions, acephobic microaggressions, sexual content mentioned, alcohol

Claire Kann writes books that consistently reassure me that I am asexual because for some reason she's able to clearly articulate the mind fog of internal doubt and questioning and curiosity that comes with being ace but living in a world that is so sex inclined.

Joy was a pleasure to read about. Her struggles with being in love with her best friend were painfully raw yet her ability to reason with herself were uniquely honest and confusing. I also loved Fox and his calm, grumpy way of worming his way into Joy's and my heart. What a simp of a man. Nary a chapter from his POV yet you could FEEL him falling for her hard.

Undeniably an incredibly unique and loving romance.

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vaniavela's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

Thirty, self-confident and asexual Joy has been secretly in love with her best friend Malcolm for a decade, but confessing it has never been in her options. When he unexpectedly announces he's met the love of his life and invites her on a group getaway, Joy decides it's her last chance to show him exactly what he's missing. But maybe Joy realizes that her crush is making her lose sight of other things, or other people?

I loved the representation. I am not part of the asexual spectrum, but I understand there are many ways people within the spectrum live. I love that we have two black asexual characters who experience asexuality very differently; neither way is better than the other, we should stop invalidating them. I loved seeing this theme foregrounded, especially when Summer, Malcolm, Fox and Joy have the conversation about asexuality. It was nice to see Summer and Fox calmly work to understand about this topic without being offensive or invalidating any of them. 

The grumpy/sunshine trope is at its best and I loved it. I loved Fox and Joy's approaches. Fox's grumpiness was so much fun to read and I loved how Joy's personality put him over the edge in certain scenes. The way the consent aspect was approached is also great. Both characters take the time to figure out what each is comfortable with, and this is an excellent example of how consent in a romantic relationship doesn't take the romantic or sexy element out of it. I loved the conversations they had about each other's boundaries and the trust they were building. 


As far as characters go, I loved Fox. He's a grumpy looking guy but has the kindest heart.  Summer was a literal sunshine, her personality extremely bright and always cheerful. I found her somewhat annoying at times, but it's not personal, so much cheerfulness in one person tends to tire me out. Joy was self-confident and loves herself. She loves the way she is, and recognizes her beauty and talent. I love reading female main characters who love each other no matter what the world thinks. We really need more strong black female main characters. Malcom was difficult to read. He was very controlling about schedules and didn't give others freedom to do what they wanted because if they moved the schedule one minute, he would get upset. Also, not telling Joy about the girl he has been seeing for months, nor any of his other friends, was something that made me feel bad for her. She was supposed to be his best friend; more than half the book we see how he brags about her everywhere, why couldn't he open up to her about all that?

As for negative aspects we have the following. In general, all these characters need therapy. Please go to a session. Another aspect is the timeline. The story literally takes place over the course of a few days, and in that time too many things happen. A problem that occurred due to 10 years of miscommunication solved in five days ? Plus I expected more from the ending. This is one of those types of books where I needed an epilogue with scenes of the characters months or years later. I didn't get it, but I'm not entirely complaining. 

Definitely read this if you're looking for a book with asexual representation, fake dating, grumpy/sunshine trope, a self-confident protagonist, and constant puns. 



Rep: Black asexual cis female MC with anxiety, Black asexual cis male side character, white cishet female side character, white cishet male side character, BIPOC female side characters. 

CWs: Major:  Mental illness (anxiety), panic attacks, cursing, acephobia, alcohol consumption. Moderate: discussions of sexual content/behavior, racism. Minor: car accident.

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amberinpieces's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny hopeful lighthearted reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25


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kylieqrada's review

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

4.5 ⭐️s. Vibes. Just... vibes. JOY IS MY BLACK ASEXUAL GODDESS AND SHE MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME. This book is so important and you need to read it. I had minor authorial voice/pacing issues with it, but they pale (PALE I SAY) in comparison to how much I love seeing an adult ace romance. I feel so seen its painful. READ THE THING. 

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imds's review

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  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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