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These Impossible Things by Salma El-Wardany

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blubbflubbl's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.75


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20sidedbi's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Absolutely brilliantly beautiful. A powerful reflection on friendship, love, and faith - all explored with a depth and consideration I'm not used to in books. Definitely check the content warnings before reading, but know that it's all handled really well and none of it is gratuitous.

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grenoblegirl's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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serenas_reads's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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_nicolesbooknook's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

These Impossible Things is an absolutely gorgeous novel. It tells the story of three young Muslim women, Kees, Malak, and Jenna, navigating life and reconciling their faith with the lives they want to live. It is full of references to Arab culture and tradition, and incorporates Arabic phrases that adds a richness to the text. The writing is beautiful and lyrical and has a flow to it that is very unique and makes for an interesting read.

The strength of this novel is in the bonds of female friendship and found family. Kees's and Malak's stubbornness tears their friend group apart, and for a year and a half they have to figure out what it means to grow up on their own. But when they need each other the most, they are there for each other.

These characters are so fully formed, so beautifully formed that I wish I could have been in their friend group. The writing is so compelling that at times it felt like I was sitting right there with them. They have a sense of humour to them, but there are times where they act so absolutely human that it makes you want to knock some sense into them. The interiority that El-Wardany adds not only for the main cast but when she slips into the perspectives of other characters as well is skilfully done and adds a layer of complexity.

This is a very emotional book. There were many chapters that made me cry, and I think I cried for the last 100 or so pages (and am still crying whenever I think about it even a day later). But I would 100% recommend it.

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iamnita's review against another edition

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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book feels like a warm hug. I felt drawn in from the first chapter and I was rooting for all the characters. My heart broke at some of the sections, and I felt myself trying to will the characters into making different decisions. The eye-opening experience of Muslim women was wonderful to read about 'first-hand'. All this being said, my favourite thing about this book is that nothing was explicitly thrown in our faces: a lot came from what wasn't even said. Well well done. Really solid read.

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lklitup's review against another edition

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emotional sad tense slow-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

I wish this book had spent at least triple the amount of time on the friendship of Malak, Jenna, and Kees. Aside from the very, very beginning, and the last 70ish pages, their friendships with one another are thought of with nostalgia. These women exemplify all the best qualities of friendship, and I wanted to have seen more before they had to face their defining moments. The meat of this novel, the in-between, made it seem like everything happened to Malak, Jenna, and Kees; a seismic shift occurred upon their reconciliation. 

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rebeccafarren's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.0


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martachbc's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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ashleysbookthoughts's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Thank you to @grandcentralpub for my gifted ARC of this lovely debut novel. Out June 7th!

It’s no secret that I’m a sucker for stories about complex female friendships. Often, those stories focus on toxic friendships and jealousies, but there are so many other, more subtle (and when done well, more satisfying to read about) ways that friendships can be complicated. @salmaelwardany captures perfectly the complexities that come with long-term friendships that originate in childhood. The difficulties are in growing up, figuring out who you are, and navigating the relationships when who you are is no longer exactly like who your friends are. 

I loved this book because I loved these characters. They felt so real and fleshed out and their relationships felt real. Reading El-Wardany’s bio on her website, I realized she put a piece of herself in each of the three main characters, which is probably why she writes them with such empathy. At times I wanted to shake the characters and tell them to stop being so proud, but it was because I loved them and wanted them to be ok. 

I’m not a Muslim woman or a child of immigrants, which is a major factor in the plot, but I think this story of emerging adulthood and reconciling who you want to be with who your family wants you to be is universal. I could relate to the feelings the characters were having despite the vastly different cultural implications from my own. And I loved seeing this play out in three very different Muslim families. 

Finally, I know I’m reading something special when despite our characters dealing with some decidedly heavy stuff, it never felt excessive or gratuitous, and there were still times I laughed out loud. She captured the dark and light of relationships and grounded it all in love, making for an incredibly satisfying read. 

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